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Why is first love so special?

First love is pure and innocent That is one of the many things that makes first love so special and memorable. Nothing about first love is selfish or with a motive. It's pure and filled with innocence.

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5 Reasons Why Forgetting Your First Love Is The Hardest!

First love touches our heart and soul in so many different ways. Not matter how hard we try, we end up thinking about our first love occasionally. Wondering why? These are the 5 reasons!

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Each one of us remembers our first love vividly. The first kiss, the first time you held hands, the first touch, the first romantic message, everything remains etched in our memory. Maybe it is because, it was the very first time we felt so many emotions for somebody apart from our family or friends. It can also be because it was the first time you actually believed that love makes life beautiful. The reasons can vary, but the fact remains that first love can never be forgotten. You may have moved on in life, maybe you are in a happier place right now – in spite of all this – first love always skips a heart beat. Here are 5 reasons why we think first love is the hardest to forget. ALSO READ Relationship goals for 2017: 7 goals that you need to set for a happier life!

Intense feelings that you never knew existed

When you fall in love for the first time ever, all those intense feelings seem confusing, but great. That is the point when you realize that even you could feel this way for someone, apart from your friends or family members. That was the first time you realized love has a different meaning too. The stares that you exchange, the smiles, it all feels beautiful.

This person was your ‘first’

Your ‘first’ anything always holds a special place in your heart. Be it your first day of school, your first bicycle, your first kiss or your first love – all these are moments that are cherished for a lifetime. Everything that you do in life will always be compared to your first. It will not matter why and how your first love never lasted, it will always have a small place in your heart because he/she was the first person to make you go all mad in love.

First love is pure and innocent

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You do not try too hard for first love to happen. It strikes at the most unexpected time and everything falls in place naturally. That is one of the many things that makes first love so special and memorable. Nothing about first love is selfish or with a motive. It’s pure and filled with innocence.

Because it ended due to unavoidable circumstances

First love often ends because of circumstances. Students pursuing different careers or attending different universities is an example. Educational or job opportunities is why first relationships often end. This leaves us with a ‘what if’ life long. What if, I had tried, What if we tried pulling off a long distance are some questions that lurk our mind, especially if it was a beautiful relationship.

You will never again get that feeling of ‘first love’

The best part about first love is the butterflies you feel, the first touch that gives your body a current and so on. This new feeling is so beautiful that most of us want it to last. We will occasionally wonder what life would have been with them. What would it have been like with that person? We live our life thinking we will never get a similar, fairy-tale-like feeling ever again. ALSO READ These 5 Dating Rules Need To Be Broken ASAP! These are some of the reasons why it is so hard to forget our first love. However, it does not mean that you will never get your happily ever after. Take it as a lesson or keep it as a good memory somewhere in your heart and lead life happily. At the end of the day, love is beautiful- first or second. Loved this story? Like our Facebook page to read more such articles. Also, share your comments below. We would love to hear from you!

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