Infatuation Rules
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Why do I get attached so quickly?

If you love meeting new people, asking deep questions, and simply spending a lot of time with others, you may find you get attached more easily to others. Especially if you're in a romantic relationship with someone. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, provided you're a good judge of character.

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The next time someone else upsets you, try to stop ruminating about the upsetting thing they did. Instead, shift your focus to all that you love about your life. All that you love about you. And make a conscious choice to move forward and focus on the things that make you happy.

7. You Have a Big Heart

Finally, if you have a big heart, you may ask, “Why do I get attached so easily?” Some people simply love people! It feels good to bond with others, especially in ways that go beyond the superficial. If you love meeting new people, asking deep questions, and simply spending a lot of time with others, you may find you get attached more easily to others. Especially if you’re in a romantic relationship with someone. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, provided you’re a good judge of character. But if you find yourself becoming easily attached to people who don’t bring out the best in you, or who don’t care for your heart in the way you deserve, you may feel defeated.

The Solution:

When you have a big heart, you have to protect it. Even if you find yourself bonding with someone special, be sure to not give your heart away too soon. Give the other person the benefit of the doubt, but let them earn your trust over time. If they prove themselves over time to be a good, trusting person, feel free to become increasingly vulnerable with them. Opening up to the right people will help you become attached to the right people (and vice versa!). Know There’s a Way to Stop Thinking, “Why Do I Get Attached So Easily?” If you’ve asked yourself, “Why do I get attached so easily?” don’t worry! Becoming attached easily to others can happen for a variety of reasons. By learning of the possible causes (and solutions), you’ll be able to form attachments more slowly. And that will help your relationships deepen at a natural, healthy pace.

The result?

You’ll feel more independent, empowered, and ready for the relationship of your dreams.

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The 11 Qualities Men Love Most I'm An Expert On Men, Not Women. It seems like everybody is giving out dating and relationship advice these days. ... Honesty. Real men respect an honest woman. ... Empathy. ... Acceptance. ... Trustworthy. ... Goal Driven. ... Homemaker. ... Supportive. More items... •

I’m An Expert On Men, Not Women

It seems like everybody is giving out dating and relationship advice these days. I know there are an abundance of men out there attempting to give you “tips” on how to be become a better woman. Please don’t count me among them; I have no such motives. Before anything else, I am an expert at being a man and it is that expertise that has armed me with the tools I need to have an accurate and effective conversation with you. My aim here is to give you greater insight into what’s going on in our heads. The more you know about men the better your dating experience will be, because you can then be intentional and date responsibly. Here’s a look at the 11 qualities he’ll admire most.

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