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What's the first thing a girl looks at in a guy?

Your Hair/Beard Your hair is the most noticeable thing to a woman and usually it helps them decide if they really like it or understand it! Maybe because it's the topmost physical feature on your body.

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Recently my colleague wrote a really interesting piece on how men can attract women, without saying a word, just by using their body language! The topic got me thinking further about what women actually look at, physically, in a man and decide instantly if she wants to pursue a conversation with him!

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Whoever said women don't notice intricate details about a man, was so wrong! They definitely notice everything, from what he's wearing to how he speaks to even his body language and his gestures. So if anytime, you want to probably wear a five-day-old shirt for a date, don't! Because she will notice and she will in all likelihood, judge! Or maybe, she won't care BUT she will notice regardless. While women notice everything about you when they see you, there are a few things they notice at first, either consciously or subconsciously and these few things decide how they want to take their time with you forward. The physical aspects obviously get noticed first before any other personality traits so, explore exclusive salons & grooming services with Times Prime! Here are the first five things women notice about men, which do not in any way go amiss!

Your Hair/Beard

Your hair is the most noticeable thing to a woman and usually it helps them decide if they really like it or understand it! Maybe because it's the topmost physical feature on your body. Most women do not prefer unkempt or untidy hair and neither are they big on man-buns, undercuts or mushrooms anymore. The recent trend is to just keep it simple and aesthetically appealing and take care of it, is all! A good conditioner always does the trick! Women don't mind a man with a beard as long as he grooms it well and keeps it trimmed and neat! Yes, a beard is one of the most noticeable physical features in a man!

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You Nails/Hands

A man with dirty fingernails is a big no-no! Trust me, no woman wants to indulge in a banter with someone who can't even keep his nails clean! She will also notice the length of your nails and if they're untidily cut or too long for her to handle, she's really going to freak out a tad. Yes, we know women have long nails too and it might seem like they have double standards but if we're going with regular old school beauty standards, women usually like men with clean, short nails. Women also look at hands frequently and notice the kind of gestures you make with your hands. Keep them clean guys, and don't use your hands for gestures too often. It's distracting!

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Posture/Built

Women definitely check your posture out because posture determines the innate need to be protected. If a man stands tall, with his shoulders pushed back, he seems confident yet gallant, and in control of the situation, which most women look forward to. It gives them a sense of security and protection. But if you're slouching or leaning forward with your shoulders drooping down, it's a sign that you're nervous, anxious, uncertain with a low self-esteem, which is a big turn off. So definitely keep your posture in check.

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Clothes

Yes, we notice what you wear and more than noticing what you wear, we notice how you pull off whatever it is that you're wearing. If you're shabbily dressed, that surely is not going unnoticed. By shabby I don't mean casual wear, I mean clothes that look dirty and unkempt or not properly worn. Make sure you tuck your shirts in, and your tees are never creased. Other than that, a suit is too formal and chappals are too casual. Be smart when you pick and choose your clothes for an evening out, because they're definitely going to up your quotient on the scoring card.

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Body Odour

Yes, that's not a noticeable thing as such but becomes mighty evident. What women actually notice is how you really smell and if you come off as a garbage heap, which has been kept in the sun for too long, there go all your chances, just like that! Invest in a good cologne, or a deodorant, that will definitely take care of your body odour. If you've just worked out, take a quick shower before you head out buddy. It's really going to help. You don't want her to move 5 feet away from you before you even open your mouth!

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If you have these 5 things in check, which are actually dependant on your natural hygiene, you're all set to head straight to round two- your body language! I really don't want to sound condescending about the fact that you need to jump hoops to impress a girl, but come on, don't you expect women to be a certain way around you too? This is honestly just to make it easier for you, that's all!

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