Tips Make it short and sweet but never too short. Say something that interests her. Then leave it at that. ... Don't “act” busy. If she responds, don't ever say you've got to go, bye, or try to hook her like that; don't pretend anything, ever. ... Be patient. If she has mentioned she'll be away, she means it.
"} 1 Don't annoy her. How often you text is very important. Getting into a full conversation is very easy, but is something you should avoid during the first few days you’re texting her. You do not want to end up annoying her by making her phone ring/buzz all day from some guy she just met.
"} 2 Make it quick. The best way to go about it would be to just have a quick conversation (four to six messages each) and then tell her you’re busy and will talk to her later. Try to actually be busy/doing something interesting. You don’t want to begin the relationship with a lie you'll always have to remember.
"} 3 Respond at your own leisure but don't take to long. It’s easy to get excited about a message from a hot girl that you’re interested in, but she will catch on to you responding immediately after you get her message. She will assume you like her and are anxiously awaiting all her messages. This ends the chase immediately. So give it some time between messages and don’t annoy her, but be careful not to play mind games. Text communication is beautiful because you have time to carefully craft what you’re going to say, so when it’s your turn to write back, take that time to fully think about it.
"} 4 End the conversation yourself. When it’s time to end the conversation, it’s best to just say “I gotta run (or have to go do something interesting if you really are). Talk to you later.” It shows that you’re not clingy if you end the conversation yourself.
"} 5 Stay in control. When she responds back and says "bye," just leave it at that (unless she asks a question). If she’s the one that sent the last message, it puts you in control and makes her wonder if you’re going to send another one.
"} 6 Give yourself some tough love. There are few things less attractive than a guy who is clearly desperate. If the girl you like isn't responding to you after several attempts, then it might be time to cut your losses and move on. Set your sights on someone new and try your luck with this new girl.
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This article was co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising . Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist, Author, and TV/radio host based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli is currently in private practice and specializes in individual and couples' relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. Kelli also facilitates groups for those struggling with alcohol and drug addiction as well as anger management groups. As an author, she received a Next Generation Indie Book Award for her book "Thriving with ADHD: A Workbook for Kids" and also wrote "Professor Kelli's Guide to Finding a Husband". Kelli was a host on LA Talk Radio, a relationship expert for The Examiner, and speaks globally. You can also see her work on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kellibmiller, Instagram @kellimillertherapy, and her website: www.kellimillertherapy.com. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida. This article has been viewed 35,386 times.
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