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What not to do during a date?

10 Things NOT To Do On A Date ARRIVE LATE. If you arrive late on the first date, you have basically just fallen at the first handle and will have some serious making up to do from now on. TALK ABOUT EX-GIRLFRIENDS. ... USE YOUR PHONE. ... BE RUDE TO THE WAITER. ... BE DISTRACTED. ... GO TOO INTENSE. ... MAKE HER PAY. ... GET REALLY DRUNK. More items...

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So, you conjured the confidence to ask her out, you somehow managed to woo her into saying yes and she actually turned up to said destination at organised time – it’s a miracle! You think to yourself, but now the real challenge starts – how not to be a total d**k on the first date, and thus ruin any future chance of seeing her again. Follow these simple steps to first date success, or rather, what NOT to do.

DO NOT…

1. ARRIVE LATE

If you arrive late on the first date, you have basically just fallen at the first handle and will have some serious making up to do from now on.

2. TALK ABOUT EX-GIRLFRIENDS

The biggest no-no of all dating rules, no one wants to hear about the love of your life or ‘the one that got away’

3. USE YOUR PHONE

Texting, taking calls, sending snap chats or even scrolling through facebook – Put.It.Away.

4. BE RUDE TO THE WAITER

Don’t think it makes you look authoritative, it doesn’t, it makes you look like a douche.

5. BE DISTRACTED

Not listening to her when she’s speaking, looking over her shoulder or even blatantly checking out other girls, none of this will get you a second date – trust us.

6. GO TOO INTENSE

Don’t talk about your relationship history has already been flagged, but equally there should be no discussions of past sadness – save the DMC until you’ve been dating for at least a month or so.

7. MAKE HER PAY

If you asked her out then either you pay or you go dutch, but never make her pay on the first date.

8. GET REALLY DRUNK

It’s not attractive and there is no way in hell she’ll be impressed by you knocking over glasses or slurring your words.

9. TALK ABOUT YOURSELF ALL THE TIME

While she might be impressed if you climbed everest and saved starving africans whilst also making millions on the stock market, she won’t care at all if that’s all she hears about. Be bashful, and save some trump cards for dates further down the line.

10. ASSUME YOU’LL GO HOME WITH HER

The absolute cardinal sin of inappropriate things to do/think on a first date. If that is your aim then you should probably stop dating altogether and take yourself down to the nearest sticky floored, cheap-shot-selling dive bar and focus your attentions there instead.

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The number one criteria for beauty according to scientists and researchers comes down to symmetry. A beautiful face exhibits perfect symmetry. One side mirrors the other. Think proportionate when it comes to the body and face.

Does the world look at attractive people with a gentler view, offering them advantages that less-attractive people do not receive? What defines beauty of form and face? If you have ever wondered whether you are attractive, learn a few secrets from the universal definition of beauty. Compare what you learn with your own face in the mirror. Discover basic truths regarding attractive people. What Makes People Attractive?

While the old adage, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, “ may be true, a universal definition of attractive cannot be denied. Which characteristics must a person possess to be considered beautiful or attractive? The Female Form The male gender is a very visual beast with distinct likes. Each person may have specific attraction magnets, but the overall look plays an important role. The number one criteria for beauty according to scientists and researchers comes down to symmetry. A beautiful face exhibits perfect symmetry. One side mirrors the other. Think proportionate when it comes to the body and face. The eyes should be proportionate to the head and face. Huge eyes on a small face appear out of proportion. Small, narrow eyes on a full face become lost and insignificant. Lips should be full and in proportion with the rest of the face. A small mouth that barely extends beyond the nostrils is considered less attractive. A small nose beats a large one every time. The preference for smooth skin and long hair comes down through the ages with adjectives such as alabaster, milky, and creamy being used when describing someone’s complexion. Males prefer a shapely feminine body with correct bust-to-waist-to-hip ratio. A woman does not have to be pencil thin to be a part of the attractive people clique, but she must be proportionate.

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