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What is the safest way to date online?

Safer online dating Stay in a public place. Share the person's profile with a friend and tell them where you are meeting. ... Save and store your app conversation with them before meeting. ... Have a backup plan. ... Trust your gut feelings.

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Online dating can be fun and safe with a little planning and care.

Dating apps and websites

If you want to try online dating, browse some of the apps and websites that offer it. Make sure you feel comfortable with the users, photos and language — find one that suits you.

Know how to recognise the ‘bad eggs’

Although most people are decent, some are not. Follow this guide to help you recognise possible ‘bad eggs’ on dating websites and apps.

Cheaters

Cheaters are often married or in a relationship and are looking for something outside their current relationship. Most will lie about the fact they are married or have a partner. Their availability is often limited and they may not readily share contact details. Again, if you are okay with this, or in a similar situation, then there is no issue, but be wary of these people if you want an exclusive relationship.

Players

Players are just after one-night stands, so they play the field. They often feature on many dating sites at the same time. They may be frequently unavailable, citing lame excuses, especially on Fridays and Saturdays. They may also suddenly contact you quite late for a ‘booty call’. This is fine if it’s what you want. It is a good idea though, to ask some questions so you know what they are looking for, and you can be sure you are both looking for the same thing.

Predators

Predators come in two types on online dating sites. The first type is looking for a short-term partner — they are likely to abuse you mentally or sexually for a while, and then move on to the next person. The second type may try to use you as a way to connect with your children, and then to groom them for sex. This is every parent’s worst fear, so don’t disclose that you have children or share any information about them until you know the person well ‘in person’. Always be careful if someone shows too much interest in your children. Remember, if you feel uncomfortable about anyone you meet online it is time to move on.

Profile liars

Profile liars create just that — a profile full of lies. They lie about how old they are, what they look like and even their hobbies and interests. They use disguise to appear attractive, and may do this quite innocently, because they really do think they are like their profile. They may, however, be just really desperate to attract people or they may do it to fool others. Always be wary of people who lie.

Scammers

Scammers are most likely to deceive you into helping them with a financial problem. They are likely to prey on your emotions and ask you for money, often employing the tactic of an emergency, like being stranded overseas or a very sick relative who needs help. Read more about online scams and identity theft.

Remember, one bad experience doesn’t mean all experiences will be bad.

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Should I trust a guy I met online?

You can trust a guy who understands privacy and online safety. Boundaries are critical for online dating: information like your address, work number, and perhaps even personal number should stay confidential until you fully trust him. A good guy won't push you to do or reveal more than you're comfortable with.

Online dating is a fun way to meet new people and find that special someone you've been longing for—but how can you tell when a guy is trustworthy? It's harder to tell you've got a keeper when you haven't met face-to-face, but there are a few tried-and-true methods for finding reliable guys on dating apps. We're here to teach you everything you need to know about building trust with guys online so you feel safe enough to meet them in person! This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, Collette Gee. Check out the full interview here.

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