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What is the one thing you always notice first about a man?

“Eyes, Smile, Physique, Height, Voice. In that order.” —Veronica P. “The way he looks at me from across the room!!!” —Zeferena B. “If he makes me laugh and feel pretty.” —Samantha R.

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“Eyes, Smile, Physique, Height, Voice. In that order.” —Veronica P.

“The way he looks at me from across the room!!!” —Zeferena B.

“If he makes me laugh and feel pretty.” —Samantha R.

“When a man walks in a room, the first thing I notice is his posture. I love, love, love a man with great posture! You can tell he works out and that he takes care of himself. It shows confidence and makes him look taller.” —Nancy R.

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“His Teeth. A smile can melt your heart.” —Karen A.

“The way he carries himself and how he treats others. Looks do not mean anything if the guy is a jerk or full of himself. But nice arms are certainly a visual treat!” —Katelyn G.

“Shoes!!!” —Claire B.

“His confidence. A man with confidence stands tall and will look you in the eye when he speaks.” —Jen D.

“Teeth and ankles lol . . . butt comes third!” —Kristy S.

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“His package.” —Thembi C.

“I try to keep an eye out for how they treat other people. That’s usually what I notice first, and that’s why I picked who I picked. My boyfriend was my supervisor at work. I first met him at 5 a.m. and he was still sweet, patient, funny, and helpful even though I was a new staff who didn’t know anything.” —Brittany Y. “Overall physique. He has to look like he hits the gym every now and then.” —Kamo S.

“How much he looks like Josh Groban” —Eveline E.

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“His hands…. Oddly. But I don’t like weak-looking hands. To me, it has to be rough-looking. Sign of a hard worker.” —Sandy L. “They way they smell and deep brown eyes get me every time” —Amy A.

“His chin, definitely.” —Dana A.

“The sound of his voice” —Maria P.

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What are signs of being disrespectful?

Disrespectful people may not care about your feelings. They may excessively lash out at you or blame you for their problems. While people get angry from time to time, healthy relationships never include physical violence, coercion, or intimidation.

Question

I asked a woman from Leipzig "How is it going?" She replied that she was stressed. Maybe Germans respond differently, but it seems like a sign of respect. What do you think?

Lea Musiolek Community Answer

There is a big cultural difference: in Germany, we only ask that question when we really want to know how the other person is, and the other person will usually answer honestly. For us, it is a sign of closeness and genuine interest, not just a greeting, and waiters and cashiers in Germany would never ask you how you are. However, when somebody asks us how we are and we have told them, the normal thing here is to ask them how they are too. The lady from Leipzig was answering normally for a German, but being slightly rude by not asking how you were.

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