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Traditionally, the 13th wedding anniversary is celebrated with a gift of lace, while the more modern iterations are (faux) fur and other textiles. While these luxe materials give plenty of gift ideas to choose from, know that you're not limited to just these themes.

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Congratulations are in order! You or a loved one has made it to lucky number 13 years of marriage. Now comes the hard part: picking out that perfect 13-year anniversary gift. If you're big into traditions, you may already be familiar with the traditional and modern anniversary gifts associated with each year of marriage. Traditionally, the 13th wedding anniversary is celebrated with a gift of lace, while the more modern iterations are (faux) fur and other textiles. While these luxe materials give plenty of gift ideas to choose from, know that you're not limited to just these themes. Read more about 13-year anniversary themes and what they mean below—then, shop our thoughtful picks for your spouse or the happy couple.

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What Is the 13-Year Anniversary Gift?

Traditional 13th Anniversary Gift: Lace

When it comes to a 13-year wedding anniversary gift that coincides with tradition, go for a present made from lace. The delicate and dainty fabric is intricate in its beauty (just like a love story!) and often requires special care, which speaks to the devotion and attention that's inevitably given to a relationship over the years. Keep reading to check out some of our favorite traditional lace wedding anniversary gifts.

Modern 13th Anniversary Gifts: (Faux) Fur and Textiles

The modern 13th anniversary gifts are fur and textiles. Fluffy, fuzzy or feathery, fur (ideally faux fur) represents the warmth and comfort you feel in a loving relationship. Textiles, on the other hand, can symbolize two lives intertwined—and being all the stronger for it. Faux fur and textile anniversary gifts can be made from almost any fabric, which hopefully makes finding the perfect present for your partner or friends a little easier. From plush pillows and knitted blankets to silk sheets, shop our favorite modern 13-year anniversary gifts below.

Other Meaningful 13th Anniversary Symbols

For another sentimental way to commemorate 13 years of marriage, you can shop for a gift related to the 13th anniversary flower, color or stone. This milestone anniversary is often associated with the chrysanthemum flower, which represents love, longevity and joy (all together now: awwwww). When it comes to the 13th wedding anniversary stone, look to vibrant yellow citrine to spoil your loved one. The unique gemstone is also associated with joy (sensing a theme here?) and is believed to bring the wearer prosperity and good energy. If none of those gifting themes feel quite "right," there's always the anniversary's official color, white, which can be applied to practically any gift out there for a subtle nod to tradition. If any of these symbols spark your interest, great news: We've rounded up the best traditional, modern and alternative 13-year anniversary gift ideas for you to shop right now.

Traditional Lace Anniversary Gifts

If you want to follow the traditional 13th anniversary gift theme for your spouse or favorite couple, there are plenty of unique lace gifts to choose from. Below, we've rounded up unique and sentimental lace gifts that'll make them feel all the love on their 13th wedding anniversary.

Lace and Satin Chemise

The lace anniversary is a great occasion to upgrade your partner's lingerie collection with a little something special. This satin chemise features sweet floral lace details on the bodice and racerback for a look that's equal parts alluring and timeless. Not only will it add a bit of spice to the bedroom, but it's also comfortable enough for everyday sleepwear.

Pressed Botanical Print

Feel free to think outside the box when it comes to the traditional 13th anniversary gift. This botanical print of Queen Anne's lace will be a unique addition to their art collection and still plays into the anniversary's lace theme in a fun and creative way. For an added layer of meaning, the plant itself symbolizes safety—much like the comfort one feels with a long-term partner.

Irish Lace Tumblers

These elegant crystal tumblers are a great way to elevate any home bar. With an intricate design of diamond cuts, fan cuts and wedge cuts, the overall pattern is inspired by traditional Irish lace, making it an ideal upgrade for the spouse or couple that loves a nightcap.

Embossed Dinnerware Set

If your dinnerware hasn't received an upgrade since you originally registered for your wedding, now might be the perfect time for a change. This 16-piece rustic stoneware set comes complete with plates, bowls and mugs, all embossed around the edges with lace-like details.

Gold Lace Heart Earrings

How about lace earrings? That's right—these earrings are actually made from lace fabric. Colombian artisans cut and sew the material into the shape of a heart, then dip the fabric in copper and 24K gold to create a duo of durable charms. Want bonus points? Plan a celebratory date night for your 13th wedding anniversary so they can take their new baubles for a spin. Add a special touch to your spouse's suit or tux with these unique lace fabric cuff links. You can select from either an antique bronze or stainless steel finish on the hardware, as well as seven different colors of lace, allowing you to totally tailor the look to their favorite formalwear.

Lace Pedestal Jewelry Holder

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If your partner already has a lot of jewelry, consider gifting them a unique way to organize it all. This handcrafted ceramic pedestal has a deep dish to store rings, necklaces or bracelets, plus small holes along the edge where they can dangle earrings. The stoneware is pressed with vintage lace for a subtle nod to the 13th anniversary's traditional material.

Embroidered Curtains

If you feel like you share your spouse with the HGTV network, a home decor-inspired anniversary gift could be just the thing to woo them this year. We love these sheer ivory curtains embroidered with dainty lace flowers. They'll still let in tons of natural light while giving any room a whimsical, romantic upgrade.

Lace Silicone Apple Watch Band

Your spouse will become even more obsessed with their Apple Watch—if that's even possible—when they pair it with this lace silicone band. The connector fits all Apple Watch series sizes so they can keep sporting it even if they get an upgrade.

Ceramic Spoon Rest

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Shopping for a home chef? This handmade spoon rest—which is pressed with real lace before being glazed in charcoal or white—will be a welcome addition to their kitchen counter. Pair it with a new favorite cookbook or a cheeky invitation to be their recipe taste tester during your next date night.

Lace Bottle Bag

You're probably already popping bottles in celebration of 13 years together—so why not do it in style? This hand-knit lace bottle bag is beaded with a heart and the milestone year—you can also add a linen heart stitched with something sentimental, like initials or a wedding date. Either way, it'll be a great way to class up whatever bottle you choose to toast with—and make for an epic Instagram picture. Yeah, you're couple goals—embrace it.

Modern Faux Fur and Textile Anniversary Gifts

If you're searching for a very now 13th anniversary gift, consider a faux fur or textile-themed present to coincide with the modern gifting materials. From irresistibly cozy blankets to unique home decor pieces, we've rounded up the best ideas for both contemporary anniversary themes.

Weighted Blanket

This knitted weighted blanket will help your partner or loved ones achieve the zen they deserve. The reason? Weighted blankets (this one is 10 pounds) stimulate serotonin and melatonin production while reducing cortisol, allowing them to take a big ol' deep breath and sink into a more relaxed state. Bonus: This gorgeous knit is made of soft and breathable cotton and comes in five different soothing colors, so it will go with any decor.

Plush Bathrobe

If your partner is all about living their best loungewear life, they'll never want to take off this super-plush bathrobe. It's made from 100% Turkish cotton and has adjustable sleeve cuffs, pockets and a tie waist, so it'll keep them cozy from their morning routine through their evening self-care. To be honest, it's a 13-year anniversary gift you'll probably want to get for yourself, too.

Flannel-Lined Waxed Trucker Jacket

Your fashion-conscious partner will get a lot of use out of this modern 13th anniversary gift. This trucker jacket has a waxy canvas exterior designed to lighten over time in the creases created by the wearer, making it a truly personal piece. The best part? It's fully lined with soft flannel for the warmth and comfort of a hug—even when the two of you are apart.

Wool-Lined Slippers

ICYMI, UGGs are back in style! Your spouse—and their feet—will appreciate a snug pair of indoor-outdoor slippers, available in four of UGG's signature shades (chestnut, light gray, black or espresso). Bonus: A water-resistant suede exterior and grippy bottom means they won't be ruined by a trip out to the mailbox—phew!

Faux Fur Pull-Through Scarf

This faux rabbit fur pull-through scarf is a stylish winter accessory and fulfills the modern anniversary theme—aka you just won at gifting. Choose from a chic selection of eight different colors, ranging from neutrals to trendy hot pink.

Faux Fur Pillow Set

Add a touch of glam to their favorite reading spot or upgrade your bedroom retreat with these faux fur pillows. This posh home decor pick recreates the natural weight, color and softness of genuine fur, yet is 100% animal-free.

Eucalyptus Sheet Set

Out of all the textile options for a modern 13th anniversary gift, silky soft sheets are arguably the most luxurious. One of our favorite sets? Eucalypso's cooling signature sheet set, which comes with a fitted sheet, a top sheet and two pillowcases, all made from premium TENCEL lyocell fibers sustainably sourced from eucalyptus wood. They're not only comfy, but moisture-wicking, hypoallergenic and antibacterial, translating into a totally restorative night's sleep. What's a better gift than that?

Washable Silk Loungewear

This oversized tee and shorts set is made from 100% Mulberry silk for supreme softness that your spouse will never want to take off. The best part? This blend is washable, so they can wear it over and over again without worrying about ruining the fabric. Use the code FOR-TK20 for $20 off your first order of $100 or more. (Shopping for menswear? Lunya sells luxe menswear too.)

Woven Basket

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If your giftee is in need of more storage space, here's a creative gift that's both practical and decorative: a beautiful handwoven basket. This seagrass and leather design is made by Connected Goods, which works with artisans around the world to provide fair wages and ethical working conditions. Soft sides fold down, allowing the basket to be more compact when not in use—but it's still roomy enough to store extra throws or their collection of slippers you've been asking them to stash out of sight for 13 years running.

Persian Rug

Carpets are a classic textile anniversary gift and can feel really special if chosen in a wow-worthy design, like this Persian-style rug with ornate borders and gem-like shapes in the center. It comes in four rustic tones and is completely washable, making it a great option for households with pets or kiddos running around.

Beanie Knitting Kit

If you're anniversary gift shopping for crafty DIY-ers who are always on the hunt for their next project, look no further than this clever knitting kit. A perfect representation of the modern 13th anniversary textile theme, it boasts everything they'll need to make a winter beanie from scratch, including thick wool yarn, knitting needles, a stitch marker, a large pom-pom maker (our favorite part!), knitting patterns and video tutorials.

Alternative 13-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas

When it comes to shopping for your loved one(s) on their 13th wedding anniversary, feel free to think outside the box. Below, you'll find a fun selection of alternative 13-year anniversary gifts that—even though they break with tradition—are still meaningful options for your spouse or friends.

Wine and Champagne Chiller

Keeping a bottle of wine or bubbly cold has never been easier, thanks to this vacuum-insulated stainless steel canister that ensures your sip stays frosty for hours, all without the hassle of ice. Just unscrew the top, pop in their favorite pre-chilled bottle of chardonnay or pinot gris and you're ready to toast to another lucky year together. Bonus: It even comes in the official hue of the 13th anniversary, white.

Mini Massager

This Theragun massager is one of the most popular gifts out there—and for good reason. Designed originally as a recovery tool for elite athletes (and adopted by all us normies), it's a deep muscle treatment that helps to soothe and relax sore muscles, all from the comfort of your home. Whether they're always active or hunched over their desk all day, they'll appreciate this opportunity for R&R.

Personalized Cutting Board

Shopping for a pair of pro party hosts? This personalized cutting board is perfect for serving up delicious snack spreads—or just decorating their kitchen. Made of durable maple wood, it comes complete with their first or last names carved in 3D on the top, giving a whole new meaning to personalization.

Craft Cocktail Kit

If the happy couple enjoys specialty cocktails, they'll love this creative subscription box from Shaker & Spoon. Each month, they'll be shipped all the fixins (except alcohol) to make signature cocktails right at home. It's not just a 13-year anniversary gift—it's a built-in date night experience.

Citrine Ring

A gift made from citrine, the 13th anniversary gemstone, is meant to bring prosperity and joy to the receiver—how endearing! If your spouse is into dainty jewelry, they'll adore this thoughtful solitaire ring featuring a round citrine stone and a rose gold twist-shank band.

Chrysanthemum Tea

Honor the 13th anniversary flower, chrysanthemum, with this delicious (and cheery!) blend of organic tea. Each dried chrysanthemum flower can steep up to three cups of tea, lending a sweet herbal flavor with a hint of honey to each cup.

Custom Wooden Sign

Honor the union that began 13 years ago with a custom wooden sign that can be proudly displayed at home. Choose from a variety of gorgeous finishes, including antique white (the 13th anniversary color, of course!), dark walnut and ebony.

Barbecue Kit

If you're married to your favorite grill master, gift them a personalized set of stainless steel barbecue tools for your 13th wedding anniversary. This collection comes with a grill brush, spatula, basting brush and tongs, as well as a monogrammed carrying case—plus all the encouragement they need to cook you up an epic BBQ feast.

Fill-in-the-Blank Book

Love letters are a classic, romantic gift for a reason—but after 13 years of marriage, you might be stumped on creative ways to say "I love you." This fill-in-the-blank book can help! It follows the alphabet for 26 prompts on why you heart your S.O. for a 13th wedding anniversary gift that's sure to bring happy tears.

Essential Oil Diffuser

Scent is strongly associated with memory, so here's our idea: Gift your spouse an essential oil diffuser with a fragrance reminiscent of a special moment in your relationship. For instance, if you honeymooned on an island, a blend of citrus and eucalyptus will take them right back to that magical vacation. Is there a 13th anniversary gift idea more thoughtful than that?

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