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What is a reset relationship?

“Reset dating” is a way to try something new You may find yourself in a “reset relationship” – or, in other words, a relationship that is all about serving your own need to refresh your life and get yourself out of a funk. “For months I've been feeling stale somehow,” says Katherine, 29, from Kent.

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How do you tell if someone is using you in a friendship?
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For Billie, 22, from Manchester, her reset relationship was a less positive experience. “I was basically sick and tired of being at home with my parents and sister,” she explains. “Do you know how when you’re home for too long, you kind of regress back into a teenager?” After lockdown was lifted in the summer of 2020, Billie was quick to move into a flat of her own – finally, she’d get to try “adult life”. “Literally, I was like, ‘Get me out of here!’” she recalls. For Billie, her need to reset was about feeling like herself again after months living back at home with her parents. She ended up dating a guy from the pub where she was working. They went out for drinks, stayed up late chatting, and even began hanging out with each other’s friends. “It was amazing,” Billie says, “but I always kind of felt it was a short-term thing.” He, unfortunately, did not. While Billie got a reset – “It’s like I’ve been cleared out,” she says – she realises now that she hurt his feelings along the way. Reset relationships aren’t that dissimilar from rebound relationships – except what you’re rebounding from is the pandemic. But reset relationships aren’t only a pandemic phenomenon. They can happen after any period of your life that leaves you feeling stuck. Iona, 23, from Glasgow, is a musician. For her, reset relationships offer an artistic reset, too. “As a singer and a writer, I sometimes feel that dating and the men I’m dating mark eras. And sometimes you grow out of one era and into a new one,” she says. “A little like Taylor Swift, I’m definitely guilty of using new flames to press the restart button and refresh.” “I think the exciting thrill and butterflies of a new thing – the chase, the wooing – sets my creative spark going too.”

How much time should I spend with my girlfriend?
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What kind of person plays mind games?
What kind of person plays mind games?

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How do you tell if he's not into you?
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Why people don't wear wedding rings?
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What makes a woman intriguing to a man?
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A woman with her own sense of self, sense of beauty, sense of style, ideas, ambitions and opinions can drive a man wild with curiosity and intrigue.

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How do you heal trust issues after being cheated on?
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