Infatuation Rules
Infatuation Rules
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Something casual to get to know each other. As for the length, it's usually about an hour. If you're having a good time, though, obviously you'll want to stay longer and perhaps order some food.
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Read More »As a dating coach, I often get questions about the first date — the length, the venue, the method of parting. you name it. I thought I'd share a few gems this week: Q: So I've been texting back and forth with this girl for a while now (kept having conflicting schedules), and we're finally getting to meet this Thursday. Can you give me some first date advice for meeting someone online? In the past first dates I've had, we talked about our experiences with OkCupid and Match. (Like, how many people we've met, bad/good experiences, etc.) Do you think that's something that shouldn't be brought up? Is there a certain length I should keep the date to, or it just depends on how well the date is going? Any first date advice is much appreciated! A: If you're meeting someone for the first time from an online dating site, it should always just be for drinks or coffee. Something casual to get to know each other. As for the length, it's usually about an hour. If you're having a good time, though, obviously you'll want to stay longer and perhaps order some food. In terms of what to talk about, I wouldn't lead with the question of how online dating is going, unless it's under the guise of how well this date is going compared to others, accompanied by a funny story. Just be yourself and be natural, and the conversation should flow. It's most important to talk about your hobbies and things you like to do to see if you have any of the same interests. And women like it when you ask them questions to show that you're interested in learning — what she likes to do, etc. You'll know when you talk if you're clicking or not just based on how the conversation is going. The first date is kind of like a screener to see if you want to take her out again, so keep the conversation light and fun (and a little flirtatious if you like). If, at the end, you do like her, it's best to tell her that you'd like to see her again, so there's no question; then you can either line up the next date just then or follow up afterwards. (No three-day rule!) If not, a simple, "nice meeting you" will do the trick.
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Read More »A: To answer your question about whether or not to take someone on a second date if you weren't enthralled on the first, I'd say that it depends. If you think there might be some connection but that you have to get to know her better, it's definitely worth the second date. If she is definitely not what you're looking for because of a few things — she was rude, you thought she was unattractive, you had clashing views on something important — obviously, it's not worth it. Remember, though, that people are not always themselves on the first date. In terms of the time and money aspect, it's best to keep the first date low-key and simple and save more creative ideas for a second date. Even then, a casual dinner would be just fine. That way, you're not pulling out the big guns (and bucks) before you know if she appreciates it. Your really creative date ideas should be used on someone who is definitely worth it. — Erika Ettin is the founder of A Little Nudge. Tribune News Service
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