Infatuation Rules
Photo by JoEllen Moths Pexels Logo Photo: JoEllen Moths

What happens to a girls body after kissing?

Kissing triggers your brain to release a cocktail of chemicals that leave you feeling oh so good by igniting the pleasure centers of the brain. These chemicals include oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, which can make you feel euphoric and encourage feelings of affection and bonding.

What happens to your body when you're attracted to someone?
What happens to your body when you're attracted to someone?

Attraction causes a boost in the chemicals oxytocin, dopamine, and norepinephrine. This surge of chemicals can make you feel euphoric and cause...

Read More »
Is it healthy to ask for closure?
Is it healthy to ask for closure?

Seeking closure is especially beneficial in situations where the relationship ended via text, Jonathan Bennett, a certified counselor and...

Read More »

It depends on who we’re kissing Share on Pinterest Humans pucker up for all kinds of reasons. We kiss for love, for luck, to say hello and goodbye. There’s also the whole ‘it feels so good’ thing. And when you stop and really think about the act of kissing, it’s kind of strange, isn’t it? Pressing your lips against someone else and, in some cases, swapping saliva? It turns out there’s some science behind this strange but enjoyable behavior. There are many theories about how kissing originated and why we do it. Some scientists believe that kissing is a learned behavior, since roughly 10 percent of humans don’t kiss at all and considerably fewer kiss with romantic or sexual intent. Others believe kissing is instinctual and rooted in biology. Have a look at some of the science behind kisses of all kinds and see what you think. Some kisses are rooted in attachment Kissing causes a chemical reaction in your brain, including a burst of the hormone oxytocin. It’s often referred to as the “love hormone,” because it stirs up feelings of affection and attachment. According to a 2013 study, oxytocin is particularly important in helping men bond with a partner and stay monogamous. Women experience a flood of oxytocin during childbirth and breastfeeding, strengthening the mother-child bond. Speaking of feeding, many believe that kissing came from the practice of kiss-feeding. Much like birds feeding worms to their little chicks, mothers used to — and some still do — feed their children their chewed up food. Some kisses are rooted in romantic love You know that high you feel when you’re head over heels for a new love and spending time canoodling with them? That’s the effect of the dopamine in your brain’s reward pathway. Dopamine is released when you do something that feels good, like kissing and spending time with someone you’re attracted to. This and other “happy hormones” make you feel giddy and euphoric. The more you get of these hormones, the more your body wants them. For some, this may be more apparent at the start of a relationship — especially if most of your time is spent in a lip lock. If you can keep up a steady pace of kissing after that initial spark fizzles, you can continue to enjoy the benefits of those happy hormones. You may even have a more satisfying relationship. In a 2013 study, couples in long-term relationships who frequently kissed reported increased relationship satisfaction. And some kisses are spurred by your sex drive It’s no secret that some kisses are totally sex-driven and far from platonic. Older research shows that for women, kissing is a way to size up a potential mate. It also plays an important role in their decision to hit the sheets. Female participants said they were less likely to have sex with someone without kissing first. They also reported that how well someone kisses can make or break their partner’s chances of getting to third base. It’s also been shown that men kiss to introduce sex hormones and proteins that make their female partner more sexually receptive. Open mouth and tongue kissing are especially effective in upping the level of sexual arousal, because they increase the amount of saliva produced and exchanged. The more spit you swap, the more turned on you’ll get.

Which letter is most powerful?
Which letter is most powerful?

No other single letter in the automotive industry packs as much history, success, passion, and performance as M, something that's clearly evident...

Read More »
What to try before ending a relationship?
What to try before ending a relationship?

With that in mind, here are five things to try before saying goodbye to your relationship. Reflect on what drew you together. We don't always...

Read More »

Plus, kissing (of any type) just plain feels good You can thank the many nerve endings in your lips for their part in making kissing feel so very good. Your lips have more nerve endings than any other part of your body. When you press them against another set of lips or even warm skin, it just feels good. Combine that with the chemical cocktail released during kissing, and you’ve got a recipe that’s sure to give you all the feels. Along with the oxytocin and dopamine that make you feel affection and euphoria, kissing releases serotonin — another feel-good chemical. It also lowers cortisol levels so you feel more relaxed, making for a good time all around.

What are true red flags in a relationship?
What are true red flags in a relationship?

Physical, emotional, or mental abuse Physical, emotional, and mental abuse are undeniable red flags in any relationship. Physical abuse is easier...

Read More »
How do I stop being a toxic person?
How do I stop being a toxic person?

How to Stop Being a Toxic Person? Be aware of yourself and your behavior. Know your values and abide by them. Be a good listener. Be empathetic and...

Read More »
What makes a woman's eyes attractive?
What makes a woman's eyes attractive?

It's All About Structure The structure of the eye orbits, otherwise known as the bones around your eye, are directly linked to the attractiveness...

Read More »
What makes a loyal person cheat?
What makes a loyal person cheat?

So while it is less likely for a typically loyal person to cheat, it can still happen or just create distance. There are so many reasons behind why...

Read More »