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What guys want to hear from their wives?

10 Things Husbands Want to Hear From Their Wives “I love being your wife.” ... “You're an outstanding father.” ... “I'm really attracted to you. ... “I really respect the decision you made.” ... “I know how important it is to live within our means. ... “I'm so grateful for your spiritual leadership.” ... “You are so wise.” More items... •

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As Mark Twain once said, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” I agree. There is nothing like specific and detailed praise and validation to energize a marriage. After some research here at Family First, we found the 10 things husbands want to hear most from their wives.

1. “I love being your wife.”

As simple as it sounds, husbands want to know that their wives are content in their marriage and truly enjoy just being with them. When is the last time you thanked your husband for marrying you? Don’t just assume he knows. Tell him!

2. “You’re an outstanding father.”

Deep in the heart of every man is the desire to be seen as a hero—especially to his children. Specifically, tell your husband why he is your kids’ hero. And tell your children why he is so special, too.

3. “I’m really attracted to you. You are the man!”

It’s a myth that women are always more looks-conscious than men. As guys’ hairlines begin to recede and stomachs start protruding, they can become quite sensitive about their appearance. Never joke about how your husband looks. Tell him he’s “hot” and how attracted you are to him.

4. “I really respect the decision you made.”

When a man makes a decision, especially a tough one, he doesn’t want his wife being critical of it or questioning him about it. He wants to know that his wife is behind him and admires his ability to make good decisions. 5. “I know how important it is to live within our means. I’m with you on this.” Your husband is concerned about the future of your family. So that means he is concerned about taking care of his family financially. Having a wife he can rely on to spend and save wisely is a tremendous comfort to him.

6. “I’m so grateful for your spiritual leadership.”

All of us are hardwired for a relationship with God, and many men want to be seen as the spiritual caretakers of their families. Encourage your husband in his faith and for taking his role as a spiritual leader seriously.

7. “You are so wise.”

Many men are born problem solvers and relish the process of thinking through something and arriving at a solution. This, incidentally, is why your husband is always trying to “fix” your problems when all you want him to do is listen. Recognizing your husband’s mental prowess and complimenting him on his intelligence will pay massive dividends to you. Emphasize to him that you trust his wise judgment.

8. “I appreciate how hard you work to provide for our family.”

There are many things in life that your husband cannot control, but what he can control is his effort. It brings him great pleasure to work hard and see the results. To be the man responsible for creating something from nothing thrills him. Encourage his great work ethic.

9. “Thank you very much for helping me with that.”

When a man serves his wife, he wants her to recognize it. A simple thank you is all he needs.

10. “I’m impressed with how you handled that situation.”

Sometimes a wife will point out when her husband does not handle something well. So when he handles a particularly difficult situation well, let him know. For the 10 things wives want to hear from their husbands, read this blog. And for compliments wives want to hear, read this one. What else does a husband want to hear from his wife? Share in a comment below.

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While it is not necessary that all friendship leads to a romantic relationship, but it is most likely that one ends up falling for their best-friend. And why not? You spend so much time with each other, make so many great memories together and are open about every little aspect of your life.

To look for a best friend in your partner, is completely normal and understandable. But when it’s the other way around, you might feel a tad bit uncomfortable and awkward. Friendship begins on a purely platonic note. There are no romantic expectations, insecurities or trust issues and two people are just tied down by their common interests and similar worldviews. But it just so happens that these shared ideas and moments, sometimes becomes the root of a blossoming love affair. While it is not necessary that all friendship leads to a romantic relationship, but it is most likely that one ends up falling for their best-friend. And why not? You spend so much time with each other, make so many great memories together and are open about every little aspect of your life. So to help you recognize these initial phases of a possible commitment, here are 7 signs your best-friend is in love with you.

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