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What does true masculinity look like?

A man who is truly masculine embraces responsibility and loves, honours, protects and provides for his family and loved ones. He lives with integrity, motivated by conviction, not comfort or convenience. True masculinity is not determined by how much physical strength a man has but rather the strength of his character.

What are early red flags in a relationship?
What are early red flags in a relationship?

They don't want to hear your stories of past happy memories that don't include them. They don't like when you hang out with your friends. They get...

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What to text if she is ignoring you?
What to text if she is ignoring you?

If you text a girl regularly and this is the first time that she's missed or ignored your text, you can say to a girl over text, "Hey! I haven't...

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True masculinity: a powerful force for good

A father is the most important man in his children’s lives. He is his daughter’s first romance and his son’s first hero. Every boy longs to be mentored by his dad and every girl longs to be adored by him. At the heart of fatherhood is masculinity. Yet we live in a world in which the definition and perception of masculinity is mired in confusion and negativity. The media image of masculinity has degenerated to the point where it is more often reviled than revered. Men are portrayed as everything from emotionally incompetent layabouts to posers and philanderers. In spite of this masculine identity crisis true masculinity is a powerful and positive force for good. A man who is truly masculine embraces responsibility and loves, honours, protects and provides for his family and loved ones. He lives with integrity, motivated by conviction, not comfort or convenience. True masculinity is not determined by how much physical strength a man has but rather the strength of his character. It is not a matter of how much wealth or power a man has but what he does with the wealth and power that he does have. A truly masculine man is courageous and uncompromising in his convictions. He is a source of tenderness and a place of safety for those he loves. True masculinity requires the courage to live authentically, to measure our strength and our worth by who we are, not on what we have and on what others say about us. Gandhi summed it up perfectly when he said, “Manliness consists not in bluff, bravado or loneliness. It consists in daring to do the right thing and facing consequences whether it is in matters social, political or other. It consists in deeds not words.” For many men life is a constant quest to find identity and validation and to prove that they have what it takes. At the core of this is a deep, secret fear that they are not quite adequate as men. The liberating truth is that you don’t have to play the man to be the man. You are the man, and so much more so, if you don’t have a constant need to prove it. Boys and girls need fathers who know who they are, fathers who will impart to them the emotional and spiritual building blocks they need to build a great life. Being a true father starts with being a true man.

– A reading from ‘Dad, Discover the Power of Fatherhood’

What qualities are most attractive in a woman?
What qualities are most attractive in a woman?

According to science, men find women more attractive when they are smart, intelligent, caring, confident, have a good sense of humor, kind,...

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What muscles do girls like the most?
What muscles do girls like the most?

The top muscles women love 6-Pack Abs. You could have biceps the size of bowling balls, but if you've got the beginnings of a gut, any...

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Can you tell how big a guy is by his hands?

Sorry boys, but it does seem the size of your fingers is a pretty good guide to your manhood. Long regarded as a myth and source of much amusement, scientists have now confirmed that the length of a man's index finger relative to his ring finger can reveal his penis size.

Sorry boys, but it does seem the size of your fingers is a pretty good guide to your manhood. Long regarded as a myth and source of much amusement, scientists have now confirmed that the length of a man's index finger relative to his ring finger can reveal his penis size. Korean scientists studied 144 men and discovered that the ratio between their second and fourth fingers - known as digit ratio - was directly linked to penile length. While previous studies have indicated links between digit ratio and prostate cancer, none have revealed why men who undergo normal puberty have different penis sizes. Each of the men who took part in the Korean study were all aged over 20 and had been admitted to hospital for urological surgery.

What's deeper than I love you?
What's deeper than I love you?

"I am committed to you." Love can be fleeting, so making a commitment shows your love is something stronger than an emotion. Commitment is choosing...

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What age group sleeps most?
What age group sleeps most?

Teens (14-17 years) require about eight to 10 hours of nightly sleep. Adults: Between the ages of 18 and 64, adults should aim for seven to nine...

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What are the red flags that your relationship is going nowhere?
What are the red flags that your relationship is going nowhere?

Red flags in a relationship include excessive jealousy and frequent lying. You should also be wary of a partner who frequently criticizes you or...

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What is the most toxic behavior in a relationship?
What is the most toxic behavior in a relationship?

They're hypercritical of each other. “In a toxic relationship, there's a chronic tone of criticism and tension. Partners feel as though they can...

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