Infatuation Rules
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Waiting the Right Way What does God want us to do and how does He want us to handle these periods of waiting? In Romans 8:25 Paul encourages us by saying that we should look forward to something we don't have yet and to do so with patience and confidence.
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Read More »Monday - Read Psalm 27:14 and James 1:2-3. Key #1 is to welcome the waiting. We must go beyond mere acceptance of our situation to fully embrace the season of waiting… however long it might be. When we fight the inevitable, we limit our vision, generate bitterness, and close any doors to spiritual growth. Sure, God can handle us asking Him “why?” But whether He answers us immediately or not, we must welcome the waiting with open arms. After all, sometimes the answers to the question of why become crystal clear during the process. If you believe in God, then you must have faith that He has a purpose in the waiting and then make your heart ready to receive it. Spend time releasing to God all your frustrations and complaints about waiting or suffering. Sit quietly, asking Him to make Psalm 27:14 a reality in your heart. Tuesday - Read Philippians 4:6 and 1 John 4:16-18. Key #2 is to evict the anxiety. Kick it right out of your mind and instead fill it up with prayer, scripture meditation, and praise. Many of us were raised to believe that we need to worry or fear during times of uncertainty, but God wants you to trust Him to the point that you can be still, peaceful, and joyful in the waiting. If God is allowing the waiting, then He has a plan for it to end as well. Remember, He holds whatever you’re waiting for in the palm of His hand and He’s preparing you for it. If you busy your mind with prayer, scripture, and praise, it won’t have time to fret during the waiting. Spend time meditating on one of the verses or a single phrase that jumped out at you. Allow God’s perfect love to squeeze out any room for fear in your heart or mind. Wednesday - Read Matthew 11:29 in The Message version. Key #3 is to stop looking for shortcuts. Release your need for control of the situation and stop trying to circumvent the process. Yes, God wants you to use your brain to be creative, resourceful, and efficient, but He doesn’t want you to spend countless hours over-researching, over-analyzing, and brainstorming ways to end the waiting prematurely. God has great plans for us at the end of the process, but we all too often miss out on the blessing because we took a shortcut or sought out a substitute for the real thing. As you enter into a time of prayer, surrender your need for control to the Holy Spirit. Ask Him for wisdom and to let you know when your “brain work” has moved passed the healthy mark and into obsessive control and impatience. Thursday - Read 1 Thessalonians 5:18. Key #4 is to give thanks continually. One of the greatest temptations while waiting is succumbing to a bad attitude, tinged with bitterness, self-pity, and brimming with negativity. At the root of these dangerous feelings is pride, which tells us that we deserve better and we should have it right now. Instead, we are called to humble ourselves before God and thank Him for His goodness. When we sincerely and unceasingly praise God and thank Him for everything — not just the good stuff — something amazing happens in our souls, transforming our perspectives and generating overflowing joy. Through words and singing, spend time praising God for His goodness and love for you. Thank Him specifically for your season of waiting or suffering and ask Him to remind you of the glory yet to come. Friday - Read Psalm 130:5, Isaiah 49:22-23, Luke 16:10, and Romans 8:18. Key #5 is to expect great things regardless of how things look right now. God never brings us second best when we wait on Him the right way. When we wait on God with patience and great expectation, He will be glorified and we will be truly satisfied. There is nothing we can wait for that can’t be enhanced by some kind of preparedness, whether it be spiritual, physical, or emotional in nature. In advance of whatever is coming, we have the opportunity to prayerfully examine ourselves and look for areas in need of improvement. Whatever you’re waiting on or suffering through, chances are there is something He wants you to work on in the interim with greater consistency. Take some time to ask the Holy Spirit to still your mind and calm your heart. Then ask Him to reveal to you what He’s trying to teach you right now. Write down whatever comes to mind and ask Him to show you the next step. Then commit to a date to begin that journey.
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