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What does GREY zone mean in a relationship?

No consistency when you get together. You have been seeing someone for a good amount of time, but never know when you can expect to hear from them or when you will see them next. This is another sign you are probably not in a serious relationship.

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Sometimes it can be hard to know exactly where you stand with someone. Here are some signs you are in the GREY ZONE:

You haven’t done the DTR (define the relationship).

You may have been seeing this person for a while and if your partner avoids having this talk when you bring it up, it may be a sign he doesn't want a real relationship.

2. No consistency when you get together.

You have been seeing someone for a good amount of time, but never know when you can expect to hear from them or when you will see them next. This is another sign you are probably not in a serious relationship.

3. He doesn't introduce you to his friends

If you have been seeing someone for a while, and he hasn't introduced you to anyone that’s important to them, then this is probably a sign that you are not in a relationship.

4. There is never any talk about the future

If this is the case, then this is probably a sign that your partner doesn’t see a long term future together.

5. You are anxious to hear back from them

In the beginning of a relationship, you might have some butterflies about dates , but you shouldn’t feel anxious about whether he likes you or not. If you are not an anxious person, and your relationship to someone else is creating anxiety for you, then this is a sign he is not committing. If you have seen these signs in your relationship and you want something more serious then maybe it’s time for you to move on. It can be very hard to turn this grey zone into a relationship, unless the other person has a sincere change of heart, which of course can happen, but often will not. Talking it out will give you clarity on your "grey zone" and hopefully allow you both to move apart and on good terms!

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July 7, 2011 -- Who says real men don't like to cuddle?

In a study that refutes gender stereotypes, researchers looking at couples in long-term relationships have found that men value cuddling and caressing as important for their relationship happiness more than women do. For women, sexual functioning predicted relationship happiness, says researcher Julia R. Heiman, director of The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction and professor of psychological and brain sciences at Indiana University, Bloomington. The study included about 200 men ages 40 to 70 and their female partners from each of five countries, including the U.S., Brazil, Germany, Japan, and Spain. More than 1,000 couples participated. The findings on gender differences in what made people happy and sexually satisfied were surprising, Heiman says. "In longer-term relationships, we didn't expect a lot of differences between men and women," she tells WebMD. But there were. ''Women reported significantly more sexual satisfaction than men, and men more relationship happiness than women, contrary to our hypothesis," she writes.

The study is published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

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