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What does a guy notice first?

Your mouth. A lady's mouth is often the very first part of a woman a guy will see. Not only are great lips and teeth sexy, but guys will look to your mouth for social cues, as it's the most expressive feature you possess. A warm, inviting smile might communicate, 'Here I am, come talk to me.

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• Your mouth. A lady’s mouth is often the very first part of a woman a guy will see. Not only are great lips and teeth sexy, but guys will look to your mouth for social cues, as it’s the most expressive feature you possess. A warm, inviting smile might communicate, ‘Here I am, come talk to me.’ A sly, seductive smirk might convey, ‘You can try, but you’ll have to work for it.’ And a scowl may suggest, ‘Turn around, and head back to your mother’s basement.’ • Your Laugh. A lovely lady’s laugh is one of the most beautiful sounds a single guy can hear, as he’ll be psyched to know that his charms are working. The laugh itself will help him decide if he’d like to ask the girl out. • Your boobs. Look, unless they’re concealed and shrouded, your breasts will be noticed by any warm-blooded male who meets you for the first time. Men are simply biologically programmed to seek them out! • Your butt. When you leave, he will likely grab a glimpse of your buttocks. Most gentlemen either fall more squarely in the ‘breast’ or ‘butt’ camp. • Your confidence. Most important of all to a guy meeting you for the first time is the energy that you exude. There is absolutely nothing that a guy finds more attractive than confidence. • Your personal style. Men believe they are quite capable of observing and interpreting a woman’s personal style. The typical guy will inevitably categorise your style in the first instant he meets you and it will definitely impact his first impression. • Your voice. While it may not be the first feature of yours he talks about with his pals, a guy will certainly be aware of the sound of your voice, especially if that voice is exceptionally sexy, or unusually obnoxious. Your voice can instantly change a person’s perception about you, for better or for worse. • Your friends. You spend enough time with some of your friends that you likely share many traits and qualities. Guys know this and will probably judge you by the company you keep. • Your body type. It’s not something anyone likes to admit, but your build is as much a part of you as any other physical characteristics. For plenty of guys, a woman’s weight is a more superficial attribute that matters less to them than other factors when choosing a mate. • Your smell. Your scent is often the one thing about you that a guy will remember most vividly long after you’ve parted ways. It can linger on clothes, hands, or linens, and give the guy a gentle reminder of the amazing woman he’s just met. • Your six-inch heels. Guys do tend to notice shoes when they’re overtly uncomfortable-looking or if you look uncomfortable in them. • Your eyes. Though a less tactful guy might get caught sneaking a peek at other assets, your eyes are what a guy should be looking at during conversation. But any experienced guy will want to look into your eyes for more than just their lovely aesthetic properties. A lot of information can be conveyed and received via eye contact, and any guy trying to get to know you will look to yours as a means of flirting and reading signals. • Your sense of humour. As much as any guy would love to make you laugh, your ability to do the same for him is a huge turn-on that he’ll notice right away.

Adapted from Womenshealth & Cosmopolitan

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How do you move your lips when kissing a guy for the first time?

Have your lips touch softly as you feel the person out. Keep your lips just slightly parted, and continue kissing the person for five or ten seconds before letting go. Keep your hands active while you kiss. Use your hands to cup the person's face, stroke his hair, or caress his neck.

This article was co-authored by Eddy Baller . Eddy Baller is a Dating Coach and the Owner of a dating consulting and coaching service, Conquer and Win, based in Vancouver, Canada. Coaching since 2011, Eddy specializes in confidence building, advanced social skills, and relationships. Conquer and Win helps men worldwide have the love lives they deserve. His work has been featured in The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, and POF among others. This article has been viewed 2,152,699 times.

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Before kissing someone for the first time, brush your teeth and swish a little mouthwash. In a pinch, you can also grab a mint or chew some gum to quickly freshen your breath. Wait for a moment when you and your crush are both relaxed and in a private, romantic setting. Keep an eye on their body language if you’re not sure whether they’re in the mood for a kiss. For example, if they keep smiling and making eye contact, leaning in close, or lightly touching your shoulder or arm, they may be into the idea of going in for a smooch. To be totally sure, try saying something like, “I really want to kiss you right now. Is that okay?” If they say “yes,” lean in and put your arm around them or lightly stroke their face or hair. Make eye contact as you move your face close to theirs. Tilt your head slightly to one side as you touch your lips to theirs to avoid bumping noses. Take it slow and keep the first kiss light and gentle. You can always move on to more intense forms of kissing, such as French kissing, if they seem really into it. For tips on what to do if your first kiss doesn’t go well, read on!

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