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What country has the happiest marriages?

Denmark is consistently ranked as one of the happiest countries in the world. It also has the highest divorce rate in western Europe: Nearly half of all marriages ended in divorce as of 2017.

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Denmark, one of the happiest countries in the world, has the highest divorce rate in western Europe. Currently, couples there can complete an online form, pay a $60 fee, and get a divorce in less than a week. New rules set to go into effect next year would require couples with kids to go through a three-week "reflection period" and get free counseling before a divorce is finalized. Denmark is consistently ranked as one of the happiest countries in the world. It also has the highest divorce rate in western Europe: Nearly half of all marriages ended in divorce as of 2017. One potential reason for the relatively high divorce rate is the fact that splitting up in Denmark is a relatively seamless process. The New York Times reported that couples can complete an online form, pay a $60 fee, and get a divorce in less than a week. Yet according to The Times, all that could change next year, when new rules around the divorce process are set to go into effect. Couples who have children and want to dissolve their marriage will now be required to take a three-month "reflection period" and get free counseling before they're granted a divorce. The goal is to protect children, who will also receive counseling during this time. As for couples without kids - and in cases of abuse - a speedier divorce will still be possible. Kathryn Smerling, a New York City-based psychotherapist who helps couples going through divorce, told Business Insider that Denmark's current divorce process is "absolutely an anathema towards emotional wellbeing and health." On the other hand, "the idea of a three-month reflection period is actually a wonderful idea when there are children involved," Smerling said. "Marriage and families are not disposable. You do need time to think about how you're going to deal with the children, how you're going to tell the children, how are the children going to live with both [parents] if they're going to do that."

The divorce process in the United States is typically much more complex

In the United States, divorce is typically a much lengthier, more expensive process. The average divorce filing fee is $215; the average divorce attorney's fees are $10,180. (One lawyer previously told Business Insider that a divorce in Manhattan can cost hundreds of thousands of dollars.) Smerling said she has couples in her practice who have been trying to get divorced for half a decade, held up by things like delayed court dates. But as INSIDER's Louis Baragona reported, celebrity divorce lawyer Laura Wasser recently launched a website that gives couples the tools to get divorced online. The website, It's Over Easy, is currently only available to couples in California and New York, and the cost of the process starts at $750. Smerling said divorce is a completely different story for couples with and without kids. In the latter circumstance, she said, "It's very easy to say goodbye and you never see the person again."

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Currently two diamond anniversaries are celebrated – one at 60 and one at 75 years. The 75th anniversary is the original diamond anniversary and the 60th was added when Queen Victoria (English Empire Monarch) celebrated her Diamond Jubilee on her 60th anniversary of accession to the throne in 1897.

Celebration History

Celebrating anniversaries has always been a popular custom. Early reasons to celebrate were linked to cycles of life: seed-time, harvest-time, the changing of seasons, and life events – the wedding, for example. The anniversary of the wedding day became a legitimate reason to celebrate. According to Hallmark research, the custom of associating silver with the 25th wedding anniversary and gold with the 50th wedding anniversary appear to have originated in the Germanic region of Middle Europe. The silver anniversary included a husband giving his wife a silver garland when they had been married 25 years. On the 50th anniversary, the husband gave the wife a wreath of gold. Currently two diamond anniversaries are celebrated – one at 60 and one at 75 years. The 75th anniversary is the original diamond anniversary and the 60th was added when Queen Victoria (English Empire Monarch) celebrated her Diamond Jubilee on her 60th anniversary of accession to the throne in 1897. In 1922, Emily Post published the first known list of traditional anniversary gifts. She expanded the list to include more years in 1957.

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