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What can make a man smile?

Telling a guy he's funny, handsome or smart is always appreciated, but the really meaningful compliments are the ones that reveal how well you know him. Something like "I love the way your face scrunches up when you're doing the crossword puzzle" or "You have the sexiest calves I've ever seen."

What are manly hands?
What are manly hands?

A short index finger is a more masculine hand. It correlates with higher male fertility, higher levels of aggression and increased aptitude for...

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Is 3 months after a breakup a rebound?
Is 3 months after a breakup a rebound?

Usually rebound relationships last between 6 to 12 months. If they last years, it's usually because the two partners have come to an understanding,...

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As someone who can barely calculate a tip, I don't have much to add to the conversation about our tanking economy. But I would like to share one little piece of wisdom I picked up from my favorite social economists: you can't buy me love. Corny but true. Don't believe me? Try one of my five patented Romance Enhancers—if you don't think they're more effective than a gift card I'll send you a full refund. Bonus tip: Give him a free pass to go out and drink beer with his friends. 1) Touch his arm. There are a lot of ways to subtly let a guy know you're into him, like maintaining eye contact, playing with your hair and smiling a lot. But the only one that sends shivers down my spine is when a girl touches my arm during conversation. It always surprises me and it's always great. 2) Send him a random text message in the middle of the day. OK, this might not be free depending on your cell phone plan, but it's still a great value. Nothing breaks the monotony of a long workday like a flirty note from someone special, and unless his job is super-intense he'll have plenty of time to daydream about you. 3) Ask him a question about something he knows a lot about. Newsflash: Guys like to show off for you. So if your dude could use an ego boost there's nothing like letting him feel like an expert. Ask him about fishing, the 1983 Chicago White Sox or the mating habits of the Guyanese woodfinch—whatever he's into. Just remember to nod a lot and look really interested. 4) Give him a very specific compliment. Telling a guy he's funny, handsome or smart is always appreciated, but the really meaningful compliments are the ones that reveal how well you know him. Something like "I love the way your face scrunches up when you're doing the crossword puzzle" or "You have the sexiest calves I've ever seen." __5) Send him the diary entry you wrote after your first date (or write one now). __One of the best things about having a girlfriend is reminiscing about what you thought about each other in the beginning of your relationship. Reliving all of the uncertainty and anxiety is strangely exhilarating. I can't think of a better anniversary present than a sanctioned peek into the diary of someone I care about.

Do you have a favorite no-cost (and PG!) way to make a guy happy? Has the economic crunch affected your love life?

Erin knows all about the power of touch. And here are five things guys don't give a damn about.

How do you confuse a chat bot?
How do you confuse a chat bot?

However, some responses or nuances of human speech can throw the bot off the scent, and lead to a dead end. 1 - Tell the Chatbot to Reset or Start...

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Is it healthy to only see your partner twice a week?
Is it healthy to only see your partner twice a week?

When you first meet someone it's tempting to see them all the time, but an expert says you should only see each other twice a week. A psychiatrist...

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Can you be addicted to being heartbroken?

Sufferers of love addiction can't get use the standard break-up routine as a cure. For them, a break – up can trigger physical withdrawal symptoms such as depression, weight loss and tremors. While some people may think this is just an excuse, it's increasingly being recognised as an illness with diagnosis on the rise.

In this month's issue of Cosmo we investigate the rising risk of love addiction - sounds crazy, right? But with more and more cases and 90% of women suffering from the condition, we thought it was only fair we dug a little deeper, as for some of us, heartbreak is that bit more serious.

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Experiencing heartbreak is normal, and if we're totally honest with ourselves, it often makes us a stronger and better person in the end. Usually a few days hidden under a duvet and a mega sized chocolate bar does just the trick, but for some suffers the pain can turn into a physical and mental strain. Sufferers of love addiction can't get use the standard break-up routine as a cure. For them, a break – up can trigger physical withdrawal symptoms such as depression, weight loss and tremors. While some people may think this is just an excuse, it's increasingly being recognised as an illness with diagnosis on the rise.

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In this month's issue we also give you an example of what love addiction really feels like when reader Louise Edmonson shares her experience. After being forced to see a doctor, Louise quickly found out the cause behind all her health troubles.

COSMO COVER STAR ZOOEY DESCHANEL OPENS UP

There's plenty of research to suggest falling in love releases the same hormones in the brain as cocaine and as a result, can be just as addictive. Symptoms include craving male attention, falling in love easily, changing partners frequently and strong feelings of worthlessness when a relationship ends. Sound familiar? Want to know more? Then check out this month's issue of Cosmo for case studies and experts' verdicts.

What is the code for I Love You Too?
What is the code for I Love You Too?

Cyber Definitions Beginning with Numbers Term Meaning 1432 I Love You Too 1437 I Love You Forever 1488 White Supremacist Symbol 3456 Missing You Is...

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How soon do men know they found the one?
How soon do men know they found the one?

The average American man knows after seven months of dating if his partner is “the one,” according to new research. Oct 1, 2019

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How do you know if he likes you more than a friend 3 signs to watch out?
How do you know if he likes you more than a friend 3 signs to watch out?

If he notices your new haircut, a change of mood, or an important date, it might indicate that he considers you more than a friend. A guy who...

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Why do girls like silent men?
Why do girls like silent men?

They are mysterious Silent men have a rich inner circle with intriguing feelings and thoughts, and this appears to act as a magnet between women....

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