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What are the qualities of a good man to marry?

The kind of man you should marry: 10 Qualities He makes you feel relaxed. You don't have to be 'on' around him. ... He makes you happy. He makes you smile more than you frown. ... You're attracted to him. ... He's loyal. ... He's a good listener. ... He's thoughtful and romantic. ... He's sweet. ... He appreciates you. More items... •

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Everyone has a different love story

For some, their great love mirrors the movies. For others, love isn’t a fairy tale. All love is unique and individualised, and truly amazing. The kind of man you should marry is someone you’re madly in love with. He should be nothing less than amazing. Love and marriage are special, so the man you marry should be, too. You know you’ve found someone special when you’ve found the kind of man who has some, all or most of the qualities on this list:

1. He makes you feel relaxed

You don’t have to be 'on' around him. You’re able to just be yourself. You’re comfortable crying in front of him, yelling in front him and having quiet moments. He’s seen the good, the bad, the hung-over ... and he still loves you.

2. He makes you happy

He makes you smile more than you frown. When you’re with him, you’re really, really happy. He treats you like a queen and does everything he can to make you happy.

3. You’re attracted to him

You find yourself beyond attracted to him. Sometimes you look at him and you think, “He may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but to me, he’s gorgeous".

4. He’s loyal

Your future husband should be loyal and 400% committed to you. He should have eyes only for you. You never have to worry about him being unfaithful, because he’s all yours.

5. He’s a good listener

The man you marry should listen to you, and I mean really listen. He should pay attention to what you say. He lets you vent, regardless of the subject. A man who truly loves you cares about what you have to say.

6. He’s thoughtful and romantic

A man who is thoughtful is a keeper. He should show you he’s considerate by doing things just to put a smile on your face. He knows it’s the little things that count. He does anything he can to make you feel special.

7. He’s sweet

He’s kind and loving because he cares about you and your feelings. He’s affectionate because he can’t help himself. He’s sweet to you in private, and of course, in public, too. He can’t wait to kiss you each and every morning and night.

8. He appreciates you

He tells you out of the blue that you look beautiful. He raves to his friends about you because he knows you’re special. He knows he’s lucky to have you in his life, and he never lets you forget it.

9. He fits into your life

He spends time with your family and you feel comfortable with his. He makes an effort to be present in your life and engage the people you love. He cares about your friends and wants them to like him. He fits into your life perfectly.

10. He’s willing to do anything for you

He makes sacrifices for you because he knows it will make you happy. He plans things he knows you will enjoy. He’s willing to do anything for you, because he loves you. The man you marry should make you feel grateful and oh, so blessed.

Written by Carly Spindel

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How do you keep a healthy relationship happy?

Top tips on building and maintaining healthy relationships Get to know yourself. Take the time to appreciate yourself and get in touch with your emotions to be able to express yourself clearly and more effectively. ... Put in the work. ... Set and respect boundaries. ... Talk and Listen. ... Let go of control. ... Reflect and learn.

3. Set and respect boundaries

Setting boundaries is not only about what you don’t want or like in your relationships, but also about letting the people around you know what you appreciate. Think about and let others know where your boundaries are; respecting your time alone for example. Doing this can take the pressure off your relationship to commit to anything unrealistic.

4. Talk and Listen

All relationships have disagreements and that’s ok. what matters is how you talk and listen to one another.

Listen to understand, rather than listening to respond.

Don’t be afraid to express your emotions or vulnerabilities with people you trust.

5. Let go of control

A lot of life is about how we react to our experiences and encounters. Knowing that you can only really control what you do and not what anyone else does will save you time and stress.

6. Reflect and learn

If you have a healthy way of expressing your feelings, you’re able to react to other people’s in a healthy way. Being angry with someone often comes from a place of feeling hurt and upset. if you can recognise that, you can communicate it, and build better relationships with others.

Reflect on the relationships that work best in your life, what qualities do these relationships have, and how can you bring these qualities into other relationships?

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