Infatuation Rules
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Key points. When falsely accused of wrongdoing, people usually feel enraged and express their anger about the unfair treatment. A new study suggests people who express their angry feelings openly are often seen as guilty.
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Read More »According to DeCelles and colleagues—from the University of Toronto, University of Virginia, Duke University, and Harvard University—a suspect’s angry reaction to being accused is often used as an indicator of the person’s guilt, even though “such anger is an invalid cue of guilt and is instead a valid cue of innocence.” The authors’ findings, reported in the August issue of Psychological Science, are discussed below.
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Read More »The next two investigations evaluated whether a suspect’s indignation and fury are related to their actual innocence. In Study 5 (N = 401), participants were randomly assigned to four conditions: They were instructed to write about a time when they had been rightfully or falsely accused of a trivial or a serious wrongdoing. Illustrative examples of serious wrongdoings were provided (e.g., cheating on one’s husband or wife, academic dishonesty, theft in the workplace). Participants were then asked to recall how they felt and what emotions (anger, hostility, irritability, frustration, calmness, or relaxation) they had displayed at the time. The results showed that compared to the rightfully accused, those falsely accused of both serious and trivial offenses often felt and showed more anger. The goal of Study 6 (N = 230) was to observe the effects of accusations in real time. There were two conditions: In the “falsely accused” condition, participants were tasked with an easy job, of capitalizing the first/last letters of a paragraph. In the “rightfully accused” condition, however, the job was more difficult and involved deleting adverbs in a paragraph. After each group’s work was supposedly evaluated carefully, both groups were accused of not having followed the instructions and told they may not receive the bonus payment promised. Analysis of data indicated that being falsely accused, compared to rightfully accused, was linked with greater feelings of injustice and anger.
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