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How do you turn on a girl to sleep with you?

Getting Her To Sleep With You Go slow. Guys often make the fatal mistake of moving straight from zero physical contact with a woman to going all the way and expecting her to do the same. ... Share a whisper. ... Use anticipation. ... The kiss test. ... Take her to your place. ... Massage her. ... Make her touch you.

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The fact of the matter is that most guys have no idea what they are supposed to do to take things to a "physical" level with a woman. And guess what? Women just hate that. Guys either get cold feet and just back off when they could have easily gone the whole way or behave like jerks in heat and end up forcing themselves on their girl. So when you are ready to make the move, keep these 10 interesting tips in mind which would help you lead her to one of the most exciting, sensual experiences of her life.

Go slow

Guys often make the fatal mistake of moving straight from zero physical contact with a woman to going all the way and expecting her to do the same. The problem is that it often backfires leaving you feeling guilty and miserable. Instead, you should start off slowly. Touch the small of her back as you open the doors for her. Lightly take her arm in yours as you walk down the street. These innocent little gestures will make her feel comfortable. You may not have realised this, but the ear is one of the most erogenous zones on the female body. Why not use it to your advantage? Instead of moving in to kiss her, just get close to her and whisper something in her ears. In can be anything – a few words of romantic sounding nothings, a secret, a little joke, what you say really doesn’t matter. Just get real close to her ears and whisper something exciting. And make sure that your voice is soft and soothing and you have your lips gently brushing against the skin of her earlobe. Try breathing softy while uttering the words. This will definitely send shivers down her spine.

Use anticipation

An excellent way of building anticipation and creating sexual tension is to tease a woman. Here’s a cool way of doing it. Tell her in a flirtatious way that as she’s a nice simple girl, she should be careful of guys like you. Now if you played your cards well all throughout the night she would be vociferous in her speech and would either say that she has nothing to be scared of or she isn’t half as nice as you think. Now creating anticipation and building the right mood for a night of sexual delight is all about pushing her to the hilt by teasing her with your eyes, your speech and the judicious use of your fingers. Look deep into her eyes, keep soft and low and lightly stroke her hair and caress her face. Get her turned on. It’s a challenge so let’s see if you’re up to it.

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The kiss test

If a girl is prepared to be kissed, and responds with enthusiasm chances are she would also be willing to take things to the next level. If you are at the movies or in your car try gauging her mood by lightly brushing your lips against hers. Remember if you are planning to make it your special night, use your kisses like a teaser. Don’t go all out and stick your tongue in her mouth. Be very playful, kiss her lightly and keep drawing back with a roguish grin on your face. Make her crazy with passion and her eagerness will take care of the rest.

Take her to your place

No guesthouses or motels please. If you are taking your girl to bed for the first time please take her to your place. This will go a long way in making her feel comfortable and relaxed. Having sex in an impersonal room of a hotel may spoil the mood.

Massage her

Your girl may feel a tad uncomfortable at the prospect of sleeping with you. It might be her first time or even yours for that matter. So don’t be in a hurry to jump into bed. To heat things up and get her back into the mood, offer her a gentle massage. Every woman loves a massage; it's relaxing, it feels good and it puts her in a very receptive mood. Start with a simple hand massage. If you sense that she is enjoying it, take things a step further. Get some oil. If scented massage oil is not avaliable, use Johnson’s Baby oil or something that’s as mild and gentle and rub her neck and if she loosens a strap or two, her lower back as well. Light a few candles and put on some soft music, to create that magical atmosphere. Massaging her is a great way of helping her out of her clothes without making her feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.

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Guys are known to freak out if a girl asks them to stop as they are about to take it to the next level. It’s a fact that women tend to get nervous if they start feeling smothered and overpowered. So don’t rush her, instead get her to make the next move. While kissing her slowly take her hand and place it on your thigh, close enough to your Rock of Gibraltar. Don't be surprised if she takes things to the next level from there.

Don’t do the unspeakables

There are a few things a great guy like you should never even think of doing. Don’t take advantage of a girl when she’s drunk or high on drugs and never force yourself on your woman. If you would ever even think of doing one of these things, then you need to get yourself some serious help. By using all the great moves that you have learnt, you would easily be able to take things to the next level with a woman in a way that she will enjoy and feel comfortable with. Start off slowly and move from one stage to the next, and you will be able to treat your girlfriend to a night of romance and passion.

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