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How do you tell if a girl is not into you?

A look inside some of the most expensive private jets in the world She takes hours to reply to your texts. ... When she does reply, her messages are blunt. ... She constantly flakes on dates. ... When you do see her, she avoids physical contact. ... She always brings up her relationship status. ... She also continuously talks about other men. More items...

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Sometimes, it can be hard to read the signs. You’re doing all of the right things and you’re not getting the reaction that you hoped but you put it down to her personality and assume that ‘it’s just the way she is’. The harsh likelihood, gentlemen, is in fact that she genuinely isn’t into you and you continuing to pester her is going to get you absolutely nowhere. So, what are the signs?

1. She takes hours to reply to your texts

No one is too busy or too important to not have the time to send a text message. If she’s taking days at a time to respond to your message, she’s not keen – any girl who’s interested in you will reply within the hour.

2. When she does reply, her messages are blunt

If she’s sending you messages without any kind of emotion or intrigue, she doesn’t want to be having the conversation you’re forcing her to have. If she’s avoiding answering questions and equally not asking you any in return, she’s not into it.

3. She constantly flakes on dates

She might mask flaking on you as being too busy or too forgetful, but if she was keen on you she would do her utmost to make sure she could spend time with you. If she’s flaked on a date more than twice, she’s not interested in it – so stop trying to pin her down. 4. She's not interested it - so stop trying to pin her down

5. When you do see her, she avoids physical contact

Giving you the cold shoulder when you go in for the two-cheeked kiss or giving you a flimsy hug is a clear sign that she’s not in anyway physically attracted to you. Stop trying.

6. She always brings up her relationship status

If she finds random and seemingly disconnected moments to bring up the fact that she’s not looking for a relationship or that she really is feeling rather polyamorous at the moment, she’s hinting at you in a very strong way. Take heed and get out.

7. She also continuously talks about other men

If she finds random moments to talk about other men – be it her ‘best friend’, a guy in her office or a family friend – and she continues to chuck his name about, she’s trying to make some kind of a point.

8. She brings up her ex-boyfriend far too often

No guy wants to be the rebound and if she’s constantly bringing her ex-boyfriend into the conversation, you’re the rebound. Cut ties as soon as she mentions him the first time and let her get over it before it’s too late and she drops you for him when he takes her back.

If she's constantly bringing her ex-boyfriend into the conversation, you're the rebound

9. She's never the one to initiate plans

If she never suggests where to go or what to do, and you’re always the one making the plans and suggesting evenings to meet, you’ve got a problem on your hands. For the first couple of dates, it should be your responsibility. But if she’s not taking an interest after that, alarm bells should be ringing.

10. If she's told you she's not into it, leave it

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How do you tell a girl you want to see her again?

Be direct. Avoid seeking their approval when asking for another date. Saying something like “I'd really like to see you again. ... Don't play games—just be honest and let the person know you'd like to see them again. X Expert Source Louie Felix ... Take your time, speaking slowly and clearly.

This article was co-authored by Louie Felix . Louie Felix is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker, and the founder and CEO of Matchmaking VIP, a company which provides concierge-level matchmaking services to clients around the world. He is also the COO of Agape Matchmaking based in New York City. With almost 16 years of professional matchmaking and dating coaching experience, Louie has served as CEO for the United States' two largest matchmaking companies serving over 50,000 clients. He has been featured as an expert matchmaker for shows on E! Entertainment Television, WeTV and the CW. He was also recently acknowledged as a top 5 worldwide matchmaker by both the International Dating Conference and the Matchmakers Alliance. Louie was also selected as one of America's top 10 Relationship Experts for the Great Love Debate National Tour. This article has been viewed 110,924 times.

Article Summary

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If your date goes well and you’d like to see them again, there are a few ways you can let them know. It’s easiest just to be clear with your date so you don’t leave them guessing. Say something like, “I had a really nice time tonight, and I’d love to see you again if you’re interested.” Alternatively, ask what they’re doing on the weekend, and if they’re free, suggest something like catching a movie or going for a drink together. You can ask for a second date when you say goodbye to each other, or call or text them when you get home. It’s best to do it that night, but the next day will be fine too if you want to sleep on it. For more tips from our co-author, including how to show someone you like them during your date, read on!

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