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How do you make someone desire you?

6 Scientifically Proven Ways to Make Someone Fall for You Maintaining eye contact. ... Be interested in who they are as a person and listen to everything they say. ... Make them feel appreciated and special. ... Smile a lot. ... Touch them more often. ... Embrace what the other person is most passionate about. More items... •

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Business Insider talked to talked to , a psychotherapist and author, who said there are six scientifically proven things you can do to increase your chances of your crush turning into something more. Here they are. 1. Maintaining eye contact. According to a study by Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin, couples who are really in love look at each other while they were talking 75 percent of the time, so try to resist the urge to nervously look away. It's so tempting, I know. 2. Be interested in who they are as a person and listen to everything they say. According to studies by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington, being a good listener is a huge part of having someone fall in love with you. Neuman says people love it when other people take an interest in them and don't immediately change the conversation so they can talk about themselves right away. He says to ask follow-up questions and respond compassionately to what the other person is saying, which in my opinion is something everyone should do more of in general.

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3. Make them feel appreciated and special. Neuman says that 48 percent of couples he's talked to have said they don't feel appreciated by their partner, so if you can make your crush feel like you appreciate everything they do and everything they are, they're incredibly likely to fall for you. 4. Smile a lot. According to a study at Drake University, smiling makes you look more attractive, more engaging, and it makes you look like a winner, all of which increase how hot and confident you look to someone who you're hoping will become your person. 5. Touch them more often. Neuman says touching your partner often increases your sense of comfort and intimacy with them. So all those little arm touches you feel compelled to do when your crush is around are actually working in your favor in a big way. 6. Embrace what the other person is most passionate about. Neuman says that when someone talks about something they're really passionate about, they're often sharing a part of themselves that's vulnerable, so if you can appreciate that thing they love, they're likely to be crazy about you in return.

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How does someone act when they are attracted to you?

When someone is attracted to you, they'll subconsciously adopt some of your mannerisms and behaviors. To create a bond or feel more aligned with you, your love interest might hold their coffee cup like you, use the same phrases you do, or even mimic your stance.

We know physical touch can be a love language. If you notice someone always finds opportunities to touch you as you engage each other, that's often a sign of attraction. These kinds of touches often occur under the guise of an "accident," for example where a person brushes up against you or attempts to bump into your hand as you both reach for the wine bottle. Or they might reach out and touch your hand or playfully hit you when you make them laugh. All seemingly innocent actions, yes, but if you notice it's frequent, take it as a show of interest! Sometimes, these signs differ by gender. Signs of attraction from a woman include softer touches. "Women may lightly touch the arm of the person they're talking to," Schafer says. It's not an invitation to a sexual encounter, so don't misinterpret the signal; "it merely means she likes you." On the other hand, a man may place his hand on the crook of your elbow or tuck your hair behind your ear. Plus, there's always this age-old sign: When a guy puts his hand on your lower back to guide you as you walk across the street or onto the dance floor, that's often a sign of attraction.

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