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How do you make a man spend on you without asking?

Be Natural. ... Act Independent. ... Amuse him. Ok those three rules up there will not only get any man attracted to you but will also make him spend money on you without asking you for sex. ... Be Natural. The natural is one who attracts people's admiration to themselves. ... Act Independent. ... Amuse him.

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Finally Exposed : How to make Nigerian men spend money on you without demanding for sex

Yes!

It's possible for a man to spend money on you without demanding for sex! Disclaimer: Every man has a different mentality either because of his nature or nurture so there may be an exception to the rules am about to give you but relax this rules have worked over the years and will still work on mist men especially Nigeria men. Ok girl, you are this babe that needs one or two things to do with money but you are not ready to trade sex for money, then this stuff is for you. Probably men always come to you, offer you lots and lots of goodies and ask for sex in return but you don't feel you should give in for some reasons best known to you, then you need to read this.

I love going straight to the point, the rules are just 3

1. Be Natural

2. Act Independent

3. Amuse him

Ok those three rules up there will not only get any man attracted to you but will also make him spend money on you without asking you for sex. If you offer sex to him he will count it as joy not as his right. Ok let me strip the content of each of this rule so you'd know how it works.

1. Be Natural

The natural is one who attracts people's admiration to themselves. When we see a child, we unconsciously like that child and feel at ease and at peace with the child because the child acts so natural. There is something about children that makes us put down our defence. We don't try to impress a child, we don't even expect anything from a child rather we feel happy helping a child and making a child happy. How do you do this? Act natural! Don't try to impress him, behave the way you'll behave in front of your females. Admire him with innocence, don't go throwing any pranks that he will misinterprete as a 'green light'. Laugh heartily and always appear happy, let your presence give him a sense of peace and happiness. How do you achieve this? When he compliment you, don't sneer or pretend you did not hear him, don't blush also. Just simply thank him with honesty, this will make him realise that he's not the first person that is complementing you. When he dresses nice compliment him and when you feel what he's putting on is not so great let him know, don't try to impress him! Tell him it doesn't fit him. Now you must know you have to do this with concern and honesty not arrogance, there should be a smile on your face when you let him know this don't go frowning like a bitch while talking to him, it will disgust him and he will tag you arrogant. When you two are together and he hints things about sex using metaphors act like you don't know what that mean. Ok here is a great example that happened to me personally some years ago when I was trying to sexting a guy. We got chatting and I was chipping in some naughty words that hint on sex. I told him

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"My pu*sy is damp" (yes! Am quite a naughty girl)

And he replied naturally

"Awww so you have a pussy cat and I never knew"

That line sounds so stupid but it worked on my being, The sexual appeal reduced. Why? He acted like he doesn't know what 'pu*sy' in my content means. He finally got me laughing and not feeling Hot with the way he chatted so naive and I swore I would have sex with him someday! And yeah! Don't ask me if I finally succeed.

Ok! Here is another example, he's chatting with you and he says

'My cock needs you'

You could just reply 'woow! What colour is your cock?'

He will probably reply 'Black' or 'brown' or whatever his cock is.

You simply reply him in a sarcastic way like

'I love the using cock feathers to tickle people's ear'

This sarcastic reply will make him believe you don't know what he actually meant. Such replies makes guys believe you are naive and not exposed to the world of sex. And most guys naturally don't like asking a girl who is naive for sex. You doubt? Then listen to Falz 'Soft work' where he say '...a girl that already knows the koko...' most guys wants sex with a girl that already knows the 'Koko' NB: You must not dare to apply this rule to a man you want to have sexual encounters with because he would be shocked when you suddenly turn naughty. You can only switch over from being a natural to a naughty girl by letting him believe he is seducing you into a bad girl.

2. Act Independent

As I will always say, nothing turns a man on like an independent woman! He respects an independent woman so much even though he will never say it. Yeah! Men don't express emotions that much, but inside them, they acknowledge truth. If you are independent and focus driven men will love to spend money on you without asking about sex because they'll feel you are just a unique lady and to win a place in your heart they'll want to invest in your dreams! Am sure you have heard when some men say 'That girls is smart, I like her' they just like the girl and for that reason they always don't say no when she ask for assistance. A man once told me 'You see that girl? I can send her money if she ask me for it but you see this one? Never!"

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I was surprised and asked why and he says the former hardly ask for money while the later always demands for everything. Don't be a pest girl! A girl who asks for nothing gets everything.

Don't do mistakes other babes do! Get exceptional.

3. Amuse him

We all are freeks for amusement! Entertainment and pleasure! This is one secret the organisers of Big Brother Nigeria know about and utilized it fully! Don't you wonder why the have so much audience even when many people feel the show promotes immorality? This is because human beings love reckless entertainment! Get creative! Learn to amuse him! Most girls make that mistake of only allowing the guy to amuse them or they get bored. No! Turn the table towards you! Make him love and appreciate your presence by entertaining him! Do you have a good voice? Sing for him! Make him wonder how you do it!

Can you dance? Entertain him!!!

Play reckless games like 'Truth or dare' with him.

Give him gist that will make him get so interested in you and when you see he's beginning to fall, flee! Give him space and watch him chase you. Why will he chase you? Because you are so active and entertaining! Your presence makes him feel at peace! You are not like every other girls. As he's chasing you to get back your attention he'll be spending on you unconsciously not to have sex with you but to have you back as his friend! NB: These rules work like magic only if you adhere strictly to it and practice it! You can always get a deeper analysis about men in my bestselling book for the Nigerian woman which many women possess but will never show you because they don't want you to know what they know.

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