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How do you let girls chase you?

So, we devised 10 simple ways to make the ladies swoon and follow us! Make Your First Impression Count. Be confident. ... Be A Challenge. ... Ask The Right Questions. ... Don't Linger. ... Pay Attention To Small Details. ... Know Where To Draw The Line. ... Get To Know Her Better. ... Know The Difference Between 'Cocky' And 'Funny' More items... •

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Men are usually swayed by good looks when they see a woman and they decide if they are attracted towards a woman or not in the first few minutes of the initial meetings. Though this, later on, can change, they might initially feel infatuated towards her and later on think that she isn't worth it or gets distracted by someone else. A lot of how your relationship will be with a woman depends on how you treat her in her early days when you started talking to her. It is not that difficult to make a girl fall for you and we are making sure you are on top of your game. Men who never chase are the ones who ultimately get the girl. Also, women like it when men don't chase them and are not easy to get.

So here are a few tips that'll help you in making her fall for you. No, this is not the same technique that Shahrukh Khan used in KJo's 'Kal Ho Na Ho'. This is nothing like '6 din ladki In' if you know what I mean?

So, we devised 10 simple ways to make the ladies swoon and follow us!

Make Your First Impression Count

Be confident. Do not fumble. Have something to say. You can't risk killing your first date with her or else that just might be your last one. There can be nothing worse than not having anything to say and the other person feeling sleepy or blabbering alone. You don't want to do that. To avoid the storm inside your head gets even worse, start talking. Ask questions and show some interest. By the end of it make her curious wherein she wants to know more and you know enough to row your boat further.

Be A Challenge

Instead of doing the hard work, create situations where she has do the chasing instead. Don't be the desperate, needy, and always-eager-to-please guy. Come across as a powerful guy, who has a lot going on his life and wouldn't go after a woman. Instead, build the mystery factor and draw them towards you.

Ask The Right Questions

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You are doomed forever if your opening statement is "Do you have a boyfriend?". Period. Women generally think of us with a one-track mind, and this is your chance to prove them wrong. Never get into silly questions or details. Instead, ask her what's her equation with pets. Or what's her favourite genre of music and maybe you can play her favourite song once she agrees.

Don't Linger

Too much of anything is bad. And trust us, women don't like men hovering around them all the time and "baby'-ing them. Give them the chance to yearn for you. Stay close, but stay away. Let them come after you when you make yourself scarce. In other words, use absence to make her heart grow fonder.

Pay Attention To Small Details

Buying her a bouquet of roses everyday or dropping obvious compliments aren't going to earn you any brownie points. Women are suckers for details. Tell her how her dress reminded you of your favourite love story writer, or drop her a text about how she's in your thoughts even when you are not around. She will definitely come back for more of those.

Know Where To Draw The Line

You like her, she likes you back. Next thing to do? You ask her out on a date! But don't keep doing it again and again. Give her the chance to miss you. If she asks you out for dinner one night, play around a bit. Tell her you are not sure, you might have to check. Of course, don't keep refusing her every time; else she might lose interest in you. Figure out the real way and you could be the real boss!

Get To Know Her Better

In an interview, the balance strikes when both parties have doubts and both their doubts are clarified. Do not go on blurting out everything about yourself without asking her a single thing. Find out what her likes and dislikes are, and whether she fits the bill too or not. It's crucial to do so, as this gives women an assurance that you are equally interested to take matters forward. Add a pinch of humour to the questions and you are on the right path, my friend!

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If you can make a woman laugh, she will be yours. And we don't doubt this fact one bit. But there's a huge difference between being funny and being cocky. Don't ever try to demean her (especially in front of others by trying to prove how sarcastic you can be), or she will never be yours. Make her laugh with good humour and that will keep her thinking more about you. Good humor can do wonders, whereas sarcasm can often kill the vibe.

Hold On To Your Cards

Transparency is good. But mystery is better. At least when it comes to wooing women. Don't be an open book. Build some suspense and create some mystery. These are foolproof ways of creating attraction, an attraction so strong, that she can't resist chasing you.

Stop Chasing

There are only a few ways that you can be different. Don't go chasing her like any other guy out there. Let her take the first step, for a change. Use the above tips and make sure you are not the one standing outside her balcony every night like Romeo. It's time for some role reversal, bro!

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