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How do you know it's not over?

You harbour feelings of anger or hurt toward each other. ... You're snappy around each other. ... You still call each other to check in. ... You update each other about your lives. ... Neither of you is interested in anybody else. ... You're still attracted to each other. ... You have things left to say. ... You find comfort in each other's company.

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Just like no two relationships are the same, no two breakups are the same! Some breakups are instant - one big fight, and you never see each other again. Some fizzle out over time until one of you finally says it's over, or finds someone else to be with. Some are a rude shock - they seem to spring out of nowhere. Some are too late, when you hold on to a relationship well past its expiration date. Some, on the other hand, are too premature... This last kind of breakup can and should be averted! But, how do you know if you're throwing in the towel before you should? Look out for these eight signs...

1. You harbour feelings of anger or hurt toward each other

Anger or hurt is the other side of love. You know how they say that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference? That's right... until you reach a point where you don't care about each other anymore, there is scope to work through your issues and reconcile.

2. You're snappy around each other

You may think that being snappy is a sign that you are annoyed with each other beyond any saving grace. But, this may be another sign that there's still some love left in there and you just don't know what to do with it!

3. You still call each other to check in

You may be parting ways in an amicable manner, and may still have soft spot for each other. But, if you're calling each other to check in once you've decided that things are through, then maybe you still hold yourself responsible for each other's well-being?

Unless you have taken enough time off from each other, and established a platonic friendship, updating each other about what's happening in our life is a subtle continuation of your relationship.

5. Neither of you is interested in anybody else

It's one thing to not be ready to move on, but if neither of you is even interested in interacting with someone new, then that flicker of hope you feel can be turned into a reality!

6. You're still attracted to each other

Sometimes, an ex becomes more attractive and tempting. But, sometimes, that attraction may become the driving force to bring the two of you back together.

7. You have things left to say

Maybe there are unresolved issues. Maybe you haven't told your partner what you felt about something in the relationship. Maybe you still love them, and haven't told them yet. If there are pending conversations, have them. Because, otherwise, this will always be a breakup from which you did not get closure!

8. You find comfort in each other's company

Do you continue to be each other's happy and safe space? Then why did you end the relationship?

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Flores told Business Insider. They have fun with you even if the task at hand is not fun, per se. ... They look at you ... a lot. ... They pay more attention to you. ... They show empathy — in good times and bad. ... They remember the little things. ... They introduce you to the important people in their lives. ... They often mention the future.

1. They have fun with you even if the task at hand is not fun, per se The saying, "It’s not what you do, but who you're with" is popular for a reason — because it's true. Pay attention to the person who's always there for you, even when the task at hand is not outwardly a fun one, like helping you move. "A sign someone may be in love with you includes their ability to have fun with you even during mundane tasks," Dr. Flores said. "If they are happy to see you, no matter what the two of you are doing, it may be love." Kailen Rosenberg, elite matchmaker and founder of The Lodge Social Club, a dating application with a three-step vetting process that launched earlier this month, agrees. "The person will often go the 'extra mile' to help you with something — a project, a need, an errand, etc.," she told Business Insider. "Bottom line, they want to be near you, thought of by you, and assist you."

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