Infatuation Rules
Infatuation Rules
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You are proud of each other, and want what is best for them. There is mutual appreciation, respect and understanding. You have a connection with each other that goes beyond what is superficial. You are not only with this person for their job, status, financial means, looks, or an idea of them, and vice versa.
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Read More »10 Ways to Know If Someone Is Meant to Be in Your Life People always come into our lives for a reason. Whether they bring a lesson, or a blessing. Whether they stay an hour, or a lifetime. You can tell if they are meant to be in your life, or if it’s time to let them go. Here are 10 signs that someone is meant to be in your life. You don’t have to hide any parts of yourself. You don’t have to ignore any of your values, likes, hobbies, ideas…etc. You don’t put each other down because. You accept each other’s differences and respect them. You allow yourself to be vulnerable. You don’t feel the need to keep up barriers and wear a mask. You let go, and you are in flow with them. You trust each other, and don’t use your past against each other. You can share the darker sides of yourself, and vice versa. You can be real and authentic with them. You can tell them your darkest fears, deepest insecurities, and your true dreams. All of this without judgment. They help you become a better person. You help each other see the parts in yourselves you don’t want to see. They show you things you didn’t know, teach you valuable lessons, encourage you to follow your dreams, and to listen to yourself. They move you to your higher nature, to your higher truth. You feel a positive energy, a higher vibration, when you’re around them. Keep this person. The energy, or “vibe”, you feel around someone is important in a relationship. You let go of your ego in their presence. You don’t feel the need to prove yourself, to only show your best side, to impress, or to manipulate. You feel at ease with them. Your emotions play a really important role in understanding someone else, and understanding yourself. You need to listen to your emotions. If you’re in your ego, if you feel jealousy, resentment, hatred, fear, pain, shame…etc, every time you’re with them, you’re around the wrong person. You don’t want to change them, and they don’t want to change you. You accept, and genuinely love each other as you are. You are proud of each other, and want what is best for them. There is mutual appreciation, respect and understanding. You have a connection with each other that goes beyond what is superficial. You are not only with this person for their job, status, financial means, looks, or an idea of them, and vice versa. You don’t allow these factors to determine your relationship. There is no competition between the two of you. You want the other person to succeed in whatever they do because you realize that their success doesn’t make yours any less. You both help each other grow into the best versions of yourself. You are there for each other in the bad times and the good. You respect their needs, and give them what they need without asking or expecting anything in return. That being said, there is reciprocity. A balance between give and take. You both have pure intentions. There is no using of one another. You help each other on your journeys and you both put effort into your relationship. You aren’t always the one to reach out. You aren’t always the one to drive and shape the relationship. You are equals in the relationship and you don’t take each other for granted. Be mindful of who you surround yourself with, because these are the people who influence and shape you the most. You become the people you spend the most time with. If you aren’t around the right people, you’ll feel it. You aren’t living up to your potential and you are ultimately harming yourself. If that’s the case, let them go, and make room for the right people to enter and change your life for the better.
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