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How do you know if I'm wasting my time with her?

4 Signs The Woman You're Pursuing Is Simply Wasting Your Time & Is Not Actually Into You 1) She Is Still Seeing Other People. 2) She Cancels On You Way Too Often. 3) At Times When She Doesnt Cancel, She. 4) Doesnt Take An Interest In You Or Your Day.

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Getting a girl isn’t easy, they say. It doesn’t just require will, it requires effort and consistency that loosely translates into ‘the chase’ for men. And that means, not giving up and trying their best to pursue a potential love interest.

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However, as romantic as that may seem, there comes a point when a guy must realise that his time may just be getting wasted by someone who isn’t as interested in them as they’d assume. And to avoid that from happening and also saving yourself from all that trouble and effort, here are a few pointers that will help you in detecting whether or not a woman you’re pursuing is wasting your time:

1) She Is Still Seeing Other People

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One telling sign of whether a woman is interested in you or not is by finding out if she is seeing other people at the same time. Because anyone who is genuinely interested in another will always want to be exclusive with them and not just keep them as an easy option.

2) She Cancels On You Way Too Often

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Rain checks with her aren’t a rarity, they are normal.

She may make a hundred plans with you, even convince you that she wants to go through with them but when the time comes she will always bail out and cancel. Take a hint, guys.

3) At Times When She Doesn’t Cancel, She...

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...gets her best friend(s) along!

After the 99 times that she does cancel on you and the one time out of which she agrees to see you, she doesn’t come alone. Instead, she brings a parade of friends with her, chilling with them, while you’re also there.

4) Doesn’t Take An Interest In You Or Your Day

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A very basic thing about liking someone is that you’ll naturally be drawn to them and hence, interested in their life. You’d want to know more about them, their preferences, their day, their likes and dislikes and so on. Which is why, when you see that the woman you’re pursuing actually takes zero interest in you, it is probably because this feeling is only one-sided.

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