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How do you know if he's just trying to get in your pants?

8 Signs He Just Wants To Get Into Your Pants He talks too much about himself. ... He puts no effort to know what matters to you. ... He's not there for you when you need him. ... He tries to get uncomfortably close to you on the first date. ... His idea of a date is just to hang out at his place. ... He doesn't like to involve friends. More items... •

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8 Signs He Just Wants To Get Into Your Pants

Originally published at lmt-lss.com on December 11, 2015.

Find out if he’s a player so as to avoid the painful heartbreak. You want to keep texting him day and night. You’re eager to know more and more about him and learn about his likes and dislikes, just to figure out if he’s perfect for you. He’s someone you met recently through an online dating app and decided to go on a date with. But, somehow you’re not able to understand if he’s genuinely into you or just fooling around and looking to get into your pants. If you’re having a tough time understanding his true intentions — whether he’s serious about you or not — then pay attention to how he behaves with you, and look out for these signs: 1. He talks too much about himself. If he’s busy telling you only about himself, without making any attempt to learn about you, then you can easily tell that he’d much rather put his needs above yours and is not worth your time. 2. He puts no effort to know what matters to you. When a guy is truly interested in you, he’ll make the effort to know your interests and hobbies. But if the guy is just in search of sex, he won’t care to know about you. 3. He’s not there for you when you need him. He’s ready when you want to grab a drink, but when you need him to give you a ride to the airport or when you’re in need of medicines in the night, he won’t be of any help to you. 4. He tries to get uncomfortably close to you on the first date. No matter how dirty your conversations over texts were, if the guy kisses you and invites you to his place on your first meeting, then he probably just wants sex. 5. His idea of a date is just to hang out at his place. If he avoids meeting up for dates at public places and tries to convince you to hang out at his place, then his main intention is to spend a different kind of quality time with you. 6. He doesn’t like to involve friends. If you both have been seeing each other for a while, and he still hesitates to introduce you to his friends, then he’s surely looking to get laid and not looking for a committed relationship. 7. He texts and calls you only when he’s bored. He isn’t someone who likes to keep in touch. He sends you texts and calls you occasionally — when it serves his purpose, like when he has nothing to do or is bored. 8. He often brings up the topic of sex. Even if playfully, he somehow turns every conversation towards sex and tries to flatter you by saying how he never met anyone as sexy as you and wonders how good you’ll be in bed.

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between five and 10 seconds Psychologists in London claim they have cracked the code on the ideal embrace, saying hugs should last between five and 10 seconds. According to researchers at Goldsmiths university, longer hugs were found to provide an immediate pleasure boost compared to shorter ones (lasting just one second).

Looking to give your loved one the perfect hug? Psychologists in London claim they have cracked the code on the ideal embrace, saying hugs should last between five and 10 seconds. According to researchers at Goldsmiths university, longer hugs were found to provide an immediate pleasure boost compared to shorter ones (lasting just one second). Rather than the style of embrace, the perfect hug is all about length. In the study, a group of blindfolded participants hugged for one second, five or 10 seconds, and reported how pleasant it was. The pandemic deprived people of hugging at a time they needed it most, so it comes as no surprise that longer hugs were rated the best, while the one second hugs resulted in lower immediate pleasure. When it came to squeeze style, the team found a criss-cross hug is the most comfortable, with neck-waist being described as more formal. While researchers suggested that "extremely brief hugs" should be avoided, it is unclear just how long is too long. "Our findings suggest that longer hugs are more pleasant than very short hugs and criss-cross hugs are more common than neck-waist hugs," researchers said in their paper. "We anticipate that the studies presented here will provide a foundation for future research on pleasant touch, especially for research on hugs, which are highly prevalent but still widely understudied. "Our findings on hug pleasure align with research indicating that robots are evaluated less positively after a 'too short' [of a] hug, indicating that very short hugs are less pleasant than longer hugs."

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