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How do you know if a man is stressed?

Physical Signs and Symptoms of Stress in Men Chest pain. Pounding heart. High blood pressure. Shortness of breath. Fatigue. Diminished or increased sex drive. Muscle aches, such as back and neck pain. Headaches. More items... •

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Men are not always good at recognizing stress in themselves, and stress is clearly an individual experience. What one man finds stressful, another will not, and what can be stressful at one time may not cause stress during another time of your life.

Measuring Stress in Men

Stress can be measured in different ways, but testing usually takes the form of a self-report in which the person rates particular experiences, events or feelings on a defined scale. Perhaps the most well known is the SRRS (Social Readjustment Ratings Scale) that was originally put together by two American psychiatrists in 1967 by Thomas H. Holmes and Richard Rahe. They listed a number of life events assumed to be stressful, such as moving or the death of a spouse or other close loved one, and they assigned a numerical value to each of these events based on the intensity of the stress. The death of a spouse, for example, was rated the most stressful at 100 whereas a minor violation of the law was assigned a value of 11.

Physical Signs and Symptoms of Stress in Men

Below are some of the physical signs and symptoms of stress experienced in men. Remember that stress is an individual experience and that symptoms are too. Signs of disease should not be ignored just because you believe they are stress-related. You must get more serious symptoms checked by your doctor.

Chest pain

Pounding heart

High blood pressure

Shortness of breath

Fatigue

Diminished or increased sex drive

Muscle aches, such as back and neck pain

Headaches

Dizziness

Clenched jaws and grinding teeth

Tightness, dryness or a feeling of a having lump in your throat

Indigestion

Constipation or diarrhea

Increased perspiration

Stomach cramps

Weight gain or loss

Skin problems

Psychological Signs & Symptoms of Stress

The psychological signs and symptoms of stress include:

Sadness

Depression

Crying

Withdrawal or isolation

Insomnia

Mood swings

Worry

Restless anxiety

Irritability, anger or decreased anger control

Overeating or anorexia

Feelings of insecurity

Decreased productivity

Job dissatisfaction

Changes in close relationships

Increased smoking

Increased use of alcohol and drugs

Facts about Stress and Men

Here are some important facts that play a role in how we think about stress, its effects both physically and psychologically, and others.

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We might think of “silent prayer” as communicating with God not by speaking words aloud but by saying them in our minds. But prayer does not always require words. In fact, Jesus cautioned that using “many words” in prayer could become like babbling (see Matthew 6:7). Being still, without using words, can help us reflect on the majesty, power, beauty, love, and other characteristics of God. We need to be clear, though, that this is different from meditation that views silence as a way to empty the mind of thoughts and to connect with one’s “inner self.” The command to “be still” in Psalm 46 has nothing to do with that—and is ­actually the opposite. Notice that the words “be still” in verse 10 are immediately followed by the instruction to know God. Prayer helps us grow in our knowledge of God, and knowing the heart of God is what enables us to be still in his presence. As Psalm 46 indicates, God is both power­ful and kind. Our troubled hearts are quieted when we find our refuge in him. Some Bible versions include the Hebrew word Selah after verses 3, 7, and 11 in Psalm 46, and that may help us understand this point. Scholars aren’t sure what Selah means, but it seems to signal a pause and perhaps a time of reflection. Practice being silent in God’s presence. Quiet reflection intensifies prayer as the mind is filled with thoughts of God.

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