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How do you know if a guy likes you after a one night stand?

He makes a plan to see you again. This goes double after you've met and hooked up, sexually speaking. If he reaches out to you and makes a concrete plan to see you again, that's one of the best indicators of how to tell if a guy likes you, even after a one-night stand.

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Is there anything more thrilling than hooking up with a guy for the first time? I mean, probably having someone skillfully throw knives at you during some sort of circus spectacle, but let's be real, that's not going to happen for most of us.

Hooking up with a hot new dude probably is. Once you part ways with your new prospective partner, the REAL work begins. Was this just a one time thing? A random hot hookup? Or was it something more?

You might find yourself wondering how to tell if a guy likes you, though the friends you ask probably wonder the same thing. After all, haven't we all been there. Well fret not, pet. I've got you sorted. Here are 5 ways to tell a guy likes you and your hookup wasn't just a one-night stand.

1. He reaches out.

Here's the beautiful thing about a one-night stand: It's just one night. A beautiful, brief, no-strings hookup. The most chivalrous of dudes might text you to say "thanks," but for the most part you can expect radio silence. If he reaches out to say hi, see what you're up to, or just check in about anything other than sex. it might not be big love yet, but it could get there.

2. He makes a plan to see you again.

It is a fact commonly known (and just as commonly ignored) that if a man likes you, he'll go out of his way to see you. This goes double after you've met and hooked up, sexually speaking. If he reaches out to you and makes a concrete plan to see you again, that's one of the best indicators of how to tell if a guy likes you, even after a one-night stand.

3. You hooked up at his place.

Every Casanova worth his salt knows that a one-night stand is better at the girl's house, because then the guy can leave and not worry about hurting your feelings by kicking you out. If a guy insists on you coming over to his place for your sexy assignation, he might be more serious. If he had no issue letting you hang out at his place, eat all his food, and watch all of the television, that's probably a good way to tell if he's into you.

4. He adds you on social media.

It used to be that if a guy liked you, he would trumpet it from the rooftops or write you on ode or some other nonsense. Nowadays there is no greater sign of post-hookup devotion than an add on Facebook or a follow on Twitter.

5. He makes his devotion clear.

Guys are actually, really, really good at telling you what they want. They'll either say it with words like, "I can't wait to see you again" or in their actions (like never calling you again). Let him make the next move after your initial fling. If he does, he's definitely into you, or at least, into having sex with you again. He will tell you, in no uncertain terms. If he's not doing any of these things, it's probably best to chalk it up to one wild night of sexual freedom and move on.

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One 2017 survey found 72% of men and 61% of women believe in love at first sight, and a 2004 study found about a third of Americans say they've personally experienced it. There's some science that backs up the concept: Some research suggests people decide within seconds whether they're romantically interested in someone, and neurologically speaking, it takes only one-fifth of a second for the neurochemical reaction associated with feelings of love to fire off. But other research discounts the theory. A 2017 study in the Personal Relationships journal orchestrated a bunch of first encounters between single strangers, and the researchers found feelings of instant attraction can indeed happen in a first encounter. Some people described these feelings as "love at first sight"—however, these people didn't report feelings of intimacy, passion, and commitment as part of their experience. The main predictor of a "love at first sight" experience was finding the other person physically attractive. In other words, romantic love usually cannot happen at first sight, psychologist and sex therapist Lauren Fogel Mersy, PsyD, explains to mbg. "There can be a strong attraction at first sight, but romantic love for someone requires knowing who they are, the fullness of their character."

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