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How do you hug after a date?

Start the hug with a gentle touch on the arm, eye contact, or a smile. Whether you're in love or just dating, there is really no wrong way to move in for a hug. So just do it! A casual touch can be used to introduce a casual hug, and an intimate touch can be used to introduce an intimate hug.

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This article was co-authored by Connell Barrett . Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation, his own relationship consulting business founded in 2017 and based out of New York City. Connell advises clients based on his A.C.E. Dating System: Authenticity, Clarity, and Expressiveness. He is also a dating coach with the dating app The League. His work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Oprah Magazine, and Today. This article has been viewed 1,075,371 times.

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The best way to hug a guy depends on whether you want the hug to be romantic or friendly. If it’s a romantic hug, start by stepping in close and making eye contact. If you want, warm up to the hug with a gentle touch on his arm or shoulder. Then, wrap your arms around him. Depending on how tall he is, you could put your arms around his neck or slide them under his arms and around his back. Either way, try not to overthink it—do whatever feels natural and comfortable. Once your arms are around him, relax and get cozy. You could try pressing your chest up against his or resting your head on his shoulder or chest. If you want to make the hug a little more intimate, try caressing his back with your hands, moving in even closer, or reaching up to pull him into a kiss. When you’re done with the hug, slowly pull back. If you want to let the moment last a little longer, let your hands rest on his shoulders or chest for a minute and gaze into his eyes before you completely break contact. If you’re going for more of a friendly hug, start by making eye contact and opening your arms. You can even say something like, “Bring it in,” or “Give me a hug, big guy!” This will give him a heads up that you want a hug, so it doesn’t take him by surprise. If he seems okay with it, step up close and put your arms around him. You can also give him a quick pat on the shoulder if you want, since this is a friendly gesture that doesn’t feel overly intimate. Keep the hug quick, since a friendly hug can start to feel awkward if it goes on too long. 2 to 3 seconds is usually a good length of time. When you’re done, gently let him go and take a step back to end the hug. For tips on how to turn a hug into a handshake, read on!

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How do you flirt before kissing?

Let her know that you're interested. Smile at her, and make her feel comfortable. Even if you already know that you like each other: a bit of flirtation can set the mood up for a kiss. Don't touch her too much, at first.

This article was co-authored by Connell Barrett . Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation, his own relationship consulting business founded in 2017 and based out of New York City. Connell advises clients based on his A.C.E. Dating System: Authenticity, Clarity, and Expressiveness. He is also a dating coach with the dating app The League. His work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Oprah Magazine, and Today. This article has been viewed 738,608 times.

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Before asking a girl to kiss you, pick a time when you’re both feeling relaxed and have some privacy. Wait for a quiet moment in the conversation and make eye contact with her. Gently touch her arm, her shoulder, or her face and say her name to get her attention. Once she’s fully focused on you, say something like, “I’d love to kiss you right now. Is that okay?” or “Can we kiss?” If she’s already leaning in close and locking eyes with you, you can also try slowly moving your face toward hers without saying anything. If she says “yes” or moves her lips close to yours, go ahead and give her a kiss. If she says “no” or moves away, respect her answer and apologize in a kind way. Say something like, “I understand, sorry I misread things.” For more tips, like how to gracefully respond to rejection, keep reading.

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