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Do you hug a guy over or under?

Don't overthink it, just wrap him up. In general, you'll slide both arms between his arms and his torso, connecting them around his back for a deep, close embrace. However, if you're feeling romantic, there are plenty of other ways to hug him: Wrap one hand behind his back, just above his butt.

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This article was co-authored by Connell Barrett . Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation, his own relationship consulting business founded in 2017 and based out of New York City. Connell advises clients based on his A.C.E. Dating System: Authenticity, Clarity, and Expressiveness. He is also a dating coach with the dating app The League. His work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Oprah Magazine, and Today. This article has been viewed 1,072,521 times.

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The best way to hug a guy depends on whether you want the hug to be romantic or friendly. If it’s a romantic hug, start by stepping in close and making eye contact. If you want, warm up to the hug with a gentle touch on his arm or shoulder. Then, wrap your arms around him. Depending on how tall he is, you could put your arms around his neck or slide them under his arms and around his back. Either way, try not to overthink it—do whatever feels natural and comfortable. Once your arms are around him, relax and get cozy. You could try pressing your chest up against his or resting your head on his shoulder or chest. If you want to make the hug a little more intimate, try caressing his back with your hands, moving in even closer, or reaching up to pull him into a kiss. When you’re done with the hug, slowly pull back. If you want to let the moment last a little longer, let your hands rest on his shoulders or chest for a minute and gaze into his eyes before you completely break contact. If you’re going for more of a friendly hug, start by making eye contact and opening your arms. You can even say something like, “Bring it in,” or “Give me a hug, big guy!” This will give him a heads up that you want a hug, so it doesn’t take him by surprise. If he seems okay with it, step up close and put your arms around him. You can also give him a quick pat on the shoulder if you want, since this is a friendly gesture that doesn’t feel overly intimate. Keep the hug quick, since a friendly hug can start to feel awkward if it goes on too long. 2 to 3 seconds is usually a good length of time. When you’re done, gently let him go and take a step back to end the hug. For tips on how to turn a hug into a handshake, read on!

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