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Do men notice a womans hair?

74% of men indicated that they notice women because of their hair and 44% of men surveyed said that hair is the first thing they notice about a woman, more than her clothes (26%), legs (25%), or makeup (4%).

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The folks at Pantene polled a whole mess of men to find out what exactly it is they notice (and love!) about a woman's hair. Here's what they found... 74% of men indicated that they notice women because of their hair and 44% of men surveyed said that hair is the first thing they notice about a woman, more than her clothes (26%), legs (25%), or makeup (4%). Most men surveyed would be more likely to approach a woman at a bar with great hair than a woman wearing a low-cut shirt. 82% of men indicated that sexy hair is a key element to a woman's overall sex appeal. 60% of men surveyed say they would rather date a woman with great hair than a woman with big breasts.

And 78% of men surveyed consider healthy hair to be a turn-on.

Now, the first thing that strikes me is that men are obviously drawn to hair that's shiny and healthy--and that makes complete sense. But this is what Steve Ward of VH1's Tough Love (whom the company hired to come and chat with us about these findings) had to say about the results: "A good first impression goes the distance and these survey results reveal you don't always have to go for the most revealing look on the first date. Instead of struggling to decide what outfit to wear, it may be a good idea to start to rethink your hairstyle. Hair that is healthy and well-kept immediately signals to a man that you are responsible, classy, attentive, and take pride in your appearance and these are all characteristics that men look for in women." Oh, and he called me out in a room full of people for tucking my hair behind my ear while he was talking--a move he said is a man magnet for a guy who was already noticing my waves.

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Why do guys find leggings attractive?

Being skintight, they hug a woman's figure, showing off the shape of her body including her hips, butt and legs. An attractive woman wearing a tight pair of yoga pants signals to men (as well as other women) that they are fit, healthy and fertile.

Why are men so attracted to women in yoga pants?

The answer can be summed up in one single word: biology.

Scientists suggest that men are subconsciously looking for women who are more likely to have fit and healthy children. Think women who have a low waist to hip ratio. According to Jerry Coyne, an evolutionary biologist from the University of Chicago, "women with hourglass figures-with relatively small waists and large hips-tend to have high levels of certain hormones necessary for fertility." Yoga pants accentuate this low waist to hip ratio incredibly well. Being skintight, they hug a woman's figure, showing off the shape of her body including her hips, butt and legs. An attractive woman wearing a tight pair of yoga pants signals to men (as well as other women) that they are fit, healthy and fertile. That's why yoga pants (in a majority of cases) attract the attention of men like no other piece of clothing.

Do girls wear yoga pants to attract guys?

The truth is, girls wear yoga pants because they are comfortable. Yoga pants were originally designed for women who practice yoga to help them stretch and breathe easily during their workouts. Although the apparel was specifically created for yoga, many yoginis wear it outside of exercising too. Women don't just wear such tight clothing in public because they want guys to stare at them; it is just accidental when a certain guy happens to catch a glimpse of what lies beneath her semi-see-through yoga bottoms. Of course, some women wear yoga pants because it serves as a mild sort of exhibitionism. Many women may even consider wearing yoga pants an expression of their femininity, sexuality and personal style. It also allows them to fit in with the current trends and styles of today.

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