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Do guys like when your nails are done?

Well-groomed hands are a plus—men definitely notice dirty or untrimmed finger nails. Colored polish is even better because men find that burst of color alluring. However, they don't care for the trend of elaborate designs, shapes or words on the nails. Do what you like with your eyebrows, but keep them looking natural.

What is three words better than I love you?
What is three words better than I love you?

3. "I respect you."I respect you for who you are, and not for what I feel you deserve. I respect you because you deserve my respect, not because...

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What kind of intimacy do men want?
What kind of intimacy do men want?

Men secretly crave to talk about their feelings, men want to be understood, they want to know how to be more vulnerable in relationships, to let...

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Whoever said that women only get dressed for women was only halfway correct. We do consider, when shopping or getting dressed, how our appearance will measure up against other women’s: is this dress unique, or have I seen it before? Will I look as slim as my super slim friends while wearing this? Do I pull off this hairstyle better than that other woman? But the only reason we do this measuring, is to determine how noticeable we will be to men. One woman standing alone in a room of men obviously is the bell of the ball. But add a bar full of ladies that spent two hours on their appearance, and you have to know what your competition is. So: what do men actually notice? And what are we just wasting our time on and, as that anonymous person put it, just doing for the ladies?

Clean clothes Men may not have half as many clothes as women do, but they tend to take good care of the clothes that they do have. In fact, men tend to pick up an iron far more than women do! And so, they certainly notice wrinkly, dirty or haggard looking clothing and take that as a sign that a woman does not care what sort of image she is putting out. High heels The verdict is in: men love those painful yet oh-so-Hot item we have a love/hate relationship with: the heels. They love the way heels make a woman’s legs look longer, and accentuate the calf muscles. However, men do not care what style, color or designer the shoe is. All they notice is how heels shape the woman’s leg. Too much makeup Most men feel that a woman wearing tons of makeup is trying too hard to find a man, and that sense of despair instantly turns them off. Men say that there is also something hot about being able to see a woman’s raw, natural skin—sexier than the best-done makeup. Brand names Men do not notice or care about brands. Any man that does have knowledge of brands is either gay or did his research to impress you. But rarely does a straight man actually feel more attracted to a woman because she is wearing designer labels. Men notice the item: skirt, dress, top, pants. And they notice how it flatters your body. The rest is not important to them (so hint, hint: if they sell it at Target for half the price, buy that one).

How do you make a man fear losing you?
How do you make a man fear losing you?

How To Make A Guy Realize He Is Losing You Let Him Know That You Are Prepared To Walk Away. Save. ... Do Not Let Him Take Away Your Efforts In...

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What is the color of female energy?
What is the color of female energy?

Pink color is associated today with the feminine world, however, until 1920s, was a masculine color. Before this decade, the indicated colour for...

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Done up hair When it comes to hair, men like the illusion of natural. They’re fine with a bun, and love a few loose strands. But a tight, slicked back bun in a perfect ball looks too unnatural. As far as straight, wavy or curly goes: men love it all! Know your body Men are smarter than we think. Many females squeeze their size 6 self into a size 2 dress thinking, “It makes my boobs look bigger. That’s all men will notice.” Nuh-uh! A woman that doesn’t dress appropriately for her body turns off men. A size 8 woman in flattering clothes is more attractive to men than a size 2 that doesn’t know how to dress for her figure. Push-ups Go figure: men like the push-up bra. When asked to choose between a regular-lift bra under a low-cut top and a push-up bra, under a less revealing top, most men chose the push-up bra in any scenario. High waisted Good news for the fashionistas out there: men like high waisted! They say it makes a woman’s legs look longer and her waist smaller, which in turn accentuate the hips, butt and boobs. However, be wary of “office” type skirts: when it comes to pencil skirts, men say there is a fine line between hot librarian and just…librarian. Sheer tops with bold bras It’s a trend that’s taken over the world: the sheer top, with a black or bold-colored bra underneath. And, like much of what Carrie Bradshaw wears, men don’t dig it. It looks more like a mistake to men, than it does attractive. Manicures Well-groomed hands are a plus—men definitely notice dirty or untrimmed finger nails. Colored polish is even better because men find that burst of color alluring. However, they don’t care for the trend of elaborate designs, shapes or words on the nails.

What percentage of online dating is successful?
What percentage of online dating is successful?

Over 13% of Online Dating Users Got Engaged or Married From a Dating Platform. Only 13% of users got engaged or married from meeting someone on a...

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Can a 17 year old date a 13 year old?
Can a 17 year old date a 13 year old?

No, it is generally not illegal to simply be in a non-sexual relationship with a minor. However, just because it is not illegal to date someone...

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Eyebrows Do what you like with your eyebrows, but keep them looking natural. Men are put off by women that try to completely re-shape their eyebrows, color them in an inorganic hue, or position them higher or lower. On that note: keep your own eyebrows. Men do not like a shaved off, penciled in brow. Shaved legs Good news ladies! If you don’t have a man in your life, or he’s out of town and you are hitting the town, you can get away with a few days of no shaving. Men take in the leg as a whole, noticing the shape, size and how toned it is. They don’t look close enough to see if there’s a little prickle. But if a man will be touching those stems, get them smooth! Be wary of the setting Men are very conscious of the setting they are in. They feel intimidated by women that are dressed up more than them, and they feel that a woman under dressed for the occasion looks either disrespectful, or like she just doesn’t want to be hit on. So, leave your sparkly dresses at home when you go to a dive bar. But dress for the occasion when going somewhere nice. Swimsuits and heels Outside of Las Vegas, men do not understand why women would wear swimsuits and heels. Immediately when a man sees more skin, he wants a more natural look. So something as liberating as a bikini, matched with something as restricting as heels, looks abnormal to them.

What should you not talk about in bed?
What should you not talk about in bed?

7 Topics To Avoid Talking About In Bed With Your Partner Ex Lovers. Okay, no one likes this. ... Anything About Work. You might have a really...

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What is 3 month rule?
What is 3 month rule?

Three-Month Rule: After a Break-Up Basically, after a break-up, the three-month rule is a rule that says you and your ex are both given 3 months...

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How do you know if a girl truly loves you?
How do you know if a girl truly loves you?

She Prioritizes You. She Gets Jealous. She Always Tries to Be around You. She Listens to You. She Legitimately Cares about You. She Tries to...

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How can I make her feel so special?
How can I make her feel so special?

How to Make a Girl Feel Special Be physically and emotionally present. ... Send unsolicited texts. ... Giving small, yet meaningful, gifts. ......

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