Infatuation Rules
Photo by Anna Shvets Pexels Logo Photo: Anna Shvets

Do emotional affairs have to be romantic?

Many see this type of connection as having an erotic component to it. Though there often can be an underlying romantic or erotic energy in emotional cheating, it can also occur without the element of romance or eroticism present.

How can I look beautiful on a date?
How can I look beautiful on a date?

Take that big leap and showcase your best self Loosen up your hair. ... Be high visibility from the waist up. ... Show off your best, keep the rest...

Read More »
How do I stop being unintentionally rude?
How do I stop being unintentionally rude?

Here's what the experts suggest: Acknowledge people and express appreciation. Say hello, thank you, and all the other niceties you know. ... Don't...

Read More »

"Emotional cheating" is a particular type of secretive, sustained closeness with someone who isn't your primary partner. It's one person making a unilateral decision to cultivate nonsexual intimacy with someone other than their primary romantic partner in a way that weakens or undermines the relationship. Many see this type of connection as having an erotic component to it. Though there often can be an underlying romantic or erotic energy in emotional cheating, it can also occur without the element of romance or eroticism present. I've worked with couples who feel "emotionally cheated on" by partners who share too much with friends, work colleagues, or even family members—people with whom there's no romantic frisson whatsoever. Nonetheless, they've experienced it as "emotional cheating" because their partners have engaged in an inappropriately deep, sustained closeness with someone else in a way that excluded them. I've even talked to people who feel their partner is emotionally cheating on them with a therapist! The advent of the internet and the abundance of ways to connect with people all over the world has opened up the number of channels available for different forms of cheating to take place outside of a primary relationship. Many who cultivate this type of closeness defend it with phrases like, "They're just a close friend," or "But you said I should turn to other people for support," or "They listen to me when you're too busy." For this reason, emotional cheating can go undetected while silently siphoning energy away from a relationship and leaving you and your partner disconnected. RELATED: What Is Considered Cheating In A Relationship? The 4 Types + Examples

Who loves more a girl or a boy?
Who loves more a girl or a boy?

“Men tend to fall in love and express feelings of love more quickly than do women, despite believing that women fall more quickly,” they tell...

Read More »
What does the Bible say about left hand?
What does the Bible say about left hand?

Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing,...

Read More »

How do you fight the feeling of missing someone?

Below is a list I put together of 10 distraction strategies that you can do immediately when you start missing your partner: Take a long walk or do some other exercise. Take a hot soothing bath. Read an interesting book or magazine. Write in your personal journal. Call a friend and strike up a conversation. More items... •

How much do you love someone? A temporary separation might tell you. Your feelings can give you great insight into your relationship. Read on to learn if it’s unhealthy to miss your significant other… I was having a phone conversation with my special someone the other day. She had been away for a couple weeks and while talking, she said to me, “I miss you.” I responded, “I miss you too!” After we hung up, I began to think about what it means to misssomeone. That feeling can tell you a lot about your relationship with that person and how important he or she is to your sense of self and your daily life.

Two Types of Missing

At the risk of oversimplifying, I think there are basically two kinds of missing someone. There is the healthy kind in which your heart aches slightly and you feel a bit lost and lonely.

How do you tell if she's not interested anymore?
How do you tell if she's not interested anymore?

11 Simple Signs She's Not Into You Anymore That You Should Notice... There's No Chemistry. ... She Uses the Word “Friend” a Little Too Often. ......

Read More »
How can I test my boyfriend?
How can I test my boyfriend?

34 Things To Do With Your Boyfriend To Test Whether He's The One Requesting your partner purchase a gift for a wedding or birthday – This tests his...

Read More »
How do we fall in love?
How do we fall in love?

Romantic love occurs due to a combination of general attraction and social factors. When another person is attracted to you or likes you, that can...

Read More »
Who does a narcissist fall in love with?
Who does a narcissist fall in love with?

There are four types of people who narcissists tend to be attracted to, according to Arluck: People who are impressive in some way, either in their...

Read More »