Infatuation Rules
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So, the answer to that question is yes. You can be in a relationship with someone you don't love. But let's delve a little deeper into why that is possible.
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Read More »#3 Out of a sense of duty. Some people will stay in a relationship like this because they feel that they owe their partner. Whether it’s because of financial or emotional reasons, they will stay because they want to pay their dues, not because they want to. #4 A different kind of love. If a person cares about someone, they won’t hesitate to offer whatever they can to make them happy. Just because they don’t have romantic feelings does not necessarily mean that they don’t love their partner, albeit in a different way. #5 Fear of being alone. The saddest reason why anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone they don’t love is when they fear the idea of not being with anyone at all. These people are most likely harboring feelings of insecurity towards themselves. That makes it hard to let go of a loveless relationship in exchange for a life without anyone at all. #6 Dependence. When you’re in a co-dependent relationship, the line between love and dependency gets blurry. A person who is dependent on somebody else can’t tell the difference between their love for their partner or their need for a security blanket. [Read: 10 scary signs of co-dependency in a relationship] #7 Financial stability. It’s hard to believe that a person is willing to forgo love in lieu of a fat bank account, but times are hard. Most people would rather be rich or sustained, rather than go through life without any sense of financial security. #8 Legal matters. When it comes to the law, there are some stipulations that don’t allow much room for people to be in a relationship with whomever they want. This could be an issue about citizenships, same-sex marriage, adoption, insurance, medical benefits, IVF treatments, etc. Most of these require you to be married, even if it’s with a person you don’t love *or even like*. But that’s illegal, in case you’re planning on going down that route. #9 Self-imposed deadlines. There are those who don’t want to grow old alone, which makes them do impulsive things like start a relationship with someone they can’t fall in love with. It’s sad, but some people find it sadder when they’re past their prime and still looking for their one true love. #10 Narcissism. No one talks about it or even admits to it, but it’s true. There are a lot of people who agree to be in relationships because it makes them feel wanted and needed. Being adored validates their existence at the expense of someone else’s feelings. [Read: 16 clear signs you’re in a narcissistic relationship]
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