Infatuation Rules
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To be eligible, you must have been married to your ex-spouse for 10 years or more. If you have since remarried, you can't collect benefits on your former spouse's record unless your later marriage ended by annulment, divorce, or death.
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Read More »Your second spouse typically will be able to claim one-third to one-half of the assets covered by your will, even if it says something else. Joint bank or brokerage accounts held with a child will go to that child.
Complications arise when you own a house. You might leave it to your kids but give your spouse the right to occupy it for life. In some states, the spouse's right is guaranteed, even if he or she remarries, says attorney Molly Abshire of Wright Abshire in Houston. Before the house can be sold, your new spouse and kids will have to come to some kind of agreement (usually financial). A risk that might not occur to you is the potential cost of long-term care. In many states, married people have a legal duty to support each other. If your second spouse eventually needs long-term care, his or her assets and yours might be tapped to pay the bills. In Texas, that even includes your own income and IRA, Abshire says. You'll be spending your kids' inheritance on your second spouse's medical expenses. In other states, however, your personal income and IRA might not be forfeited for a spouse's nursing home expenses. So get good legal advice. You might decide to skip the "I do's" and publicly become partners instead. These decisions can be tough to make, especially if you and your new beloved find that you don't agree. It's even harder to tell the kids that their inheritance might change. "Often, people freeze and do nothing," Whitenack says. Or they make their plans secretly, figuring "I'll be dead and won't have to worry about it." That's the worst outcome. Be brave. Fess up. Jane Bryant Quinn is a personal finance expert and author of How to Make Your Money Last: The Indispensable Retirement Guide and Making the Most of Your Money NOW.
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