Can a relationship spark come back?

You can rekindle your relationship by revising your roots, doing new things together, practicing gratitude, and kissing more. Getting professional support may also help the process.

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Rekindling a relationship may not always be possible. If there’s mutual love, however, you may both want to put in the work to spark the flame and strengthen your connection for the long run. You can bring the spark back into your relationship by remembering what brought you two together, listening to the needs of your partner, and finding space for things you both enjoy. You may not be able to recreate the overwhelming feeling of infatuation from early in your relationship. But it’s possible to reach new depths of intimacy that can bring you closer than ever, and have a healthy and lasting relationship .

This doesn’t mean you won’t face ups and downs, though.

If you nourish your relationship, your brain may increase the production of hormones that facilitate attachment , such as oxytocin and vasopressin. During this stage, you may start to cultivate a closeness that lasts a lifetime. As time passes, that thrill may subside. It might give space to love, if you both nurture the bond. You’ve probably experienced the giddy feeling when you develop a crush or start dating someone new. That “spark” is often the result of a cocktail of sex hormones and feel-good substances like dopamine and norepinephrine. Yes, it’s possible to rekindle love, passion, and trust in a relationship. But, it might depend on the circumstances that led to the current challenges. It may also require that you choose love every day. Many things can deteriorate a romantic relationship, depending on both your needs and expectations.

1. Reminiscing

Revisiting your relationship roots can help rekindle the romance. In fact, new research shows that nostalgia is associated with greater relationship commitment, reported satisfaction, and a sense of closeness. “When I meet with a couple for couples counseling, the first thing I always do is ask questions about the beginning of the relationship,” says Amanda Baquero, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Coral Gables, Florida. To tap into nostalgia, Baquero suggests visiting the place you first met, your old favorite date spot, or looking through old photos together. It’s not about reliving your honeymoon phase. It’s about remembering what made you fall in love in the first place.

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reading old chats or messages you exchanged during good times

making a list of all the things that brought you together

naming a few things your partner has done for you

listening together to “your” songs

revising your couple bucket list

2. Focusing on communication

Good communication can help you clarify misunderstandings, let each other know how you feel and what you expect, and deepen your connection. All of these are key to rekindling love and trust. To bring the spark back into a relationship you may want to start working on how to be a better listener and a more effective emotional speaker.

3. Bringing back the romantic gestures

Consider asking your partner how they like to be loved or rather, what things make them feel loved and appreciated. Is it time with them? Maybe it’s getting gifts once in a while? Perhaps they prefer you verbally express love. Using their love language can help bring you back together. Someone whose love language is words of affirmation may prefer receiving compliments or love letters, whereas someone who appreciates acts of service may feel loved when you complete a project around the house or cook them a meal. The three other love languages are receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. You may be surprised to find that your partner’s love language is different than your own. Being loved in the way you appreciate the most may be one of the most important ways to rekindle a broken relationship.

4. Practicing gratitude

“Oftentimes, when we are in a long-term relationship, we start to take each other for granted,” Baquero says. “One great way to reignite the spark in your relationship is to make time to practice gratitude with each other.” Rather than simply saying “thank you” more often, consider taking note of actions your partner does that you appreciate. Then, try to share this gratitude verbally or in a note as often as you can. This practice not only makes your partner feel more appreciated and endeared toward you, but it also helps you grow your sense of gratitude organically.

5. Scheduling date nights

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Many couples stop dating after moving in together or getting married because they no longer need to plan to see each other. But this may take away some of the excitement of spending time together. “There is a myth that sex should be spontaneous. Life can get busy and things can get in the way of being physically intimate with your partner,” says Rachel Needle, PsyD, a certified sex therapist. “Planning ahead can build anticipation and excitement.”

6. Try new things together

If date nights become repetitive, Baquero recommends trying out a new hobby together. “A great strategy to combat [staleness in a relationship] is to plan out and try new activities together,” she says. Baquero’s suggestion is backed by a 2019 study of 20 cohabitating or married couples. It found that participating in a shared recreational activity can stimulate oxytocin, the bonding hormone. After sharing a new experience, you may notice an increased level of closeness with your partner.

Ideas include:

joining a sports team

taking a dance class

trying a new cuisine

redecorating

volunteering

going camping

planning a weekend getaway

7. Kissing more often

If you and your partner enjoyed kissing at the beginning of your relationship, making it a more common occurrence again could reignite romantic feelings. Kissing causes your brain to release oxytocin and serotonin, promoting bonding, as well as helping you relieve stress and anxiety. “Continuing to hug, kiss, [and] snuggle is an important component of a healthy relationship and will increase the likelihood of remaining sexually active with your long-term partner,” says Needle. “Show your affection with hugs and kisses often, not always as a prelude to intercourse.”

psychcentral.com - How to Rekindle a Relationship: 7 Ways to Reignite the Spark

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